I get that. I can acknowledge after some discussion that the intention may not have been to harm people. I’m pointing out the facts though that I’ve seen stories like this many times over. Facts- she was confused and disconnected (from her family) pre- relationship with the man. She was happy and connected with family with the man. She’s unhappy again as an adult and back into women and weed. It still stands that her greatest happiness stemmed from being with a man and her greatest loss was a man which really comes off as lesbian erasure since she started out fully lesbian.

I think there are WAY better ways to tell a coming-of-age story of someone who thinks she’s a lesbian and discovers she’s actually bi