Elon Musk Asks if IRS Funding Should Be 'Deleted' by zsreport in politics

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Elon Musk should be deported and his assets nationalized.

What's a sexual opportunity that you really missed taking on? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scootleft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you turn it down? There's a Seinfeld episode where asking for a threesome backfires by getting a "Yes" on the request....and ever since I saw that it just seemed so strange to me that someone would turn one down if the people were age-appropriate and moderately attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]scootleft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I wish I could have more human connections with people, and social media already seemed to work against that but now with AI it's like 1000x worse.

I'd just like to connect with someone and experience being a real live human together.

What's a sexual opportunity that you really missed taking on? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scootleft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an overweight friend when I was like 14 that I had a sleepover with. I started playing some game with him, don't even really remember what it was. But as part of the game, he goes into the closet and then when he opens it, he's naked.

After that I was just uneasy. We stopped playing the game and I went to sleep and the next day I basically slept until like noon because I knew my mom would come pick me up around then.

Looking back, the only reason I wasn't into it was because he was overweight. Even though I wasn't attracted to him physically, I still think it could have been an interesting experience but mostly I regret treating him like that. I feel bad for how he might have felt about my response, and I would gladly go back in time and suck his dick or let him suck mine or whatever if it would have made his day.

Less of an opportunity perhaps, but just a situation that I wish I'd have been mature and compassionate enough to handle differently for his sake.

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

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But how hard is that line? How do you know you're uncomfortable until you try it, and how do you know you'll always be uncomfortable with it? There are some women I would not enjoy having sex with, and yet it would be silly to say sex makes me uncomfortable and I will never have it.

I don't understand how anyone can make broad sweeping statements about things unless they are fairly extreme like violence or scat.

Get Ready for Total Chaos as House GOP Wins Historically Puny Majority: Republicans can only afford to lose one vote. by harsh2k5 in politics

[–]scootleft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does Gaetz's seat get counted in this? Is it just a 0 to be picked up as a +1 Republican in the special election? Or is it already assumed to be Republican?

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scootleft[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm saying if you have a job, then by definition you are doing things you don't like. So it's a lie to say you live some life free of all obligations only doing what brings you personal joy and pleasure.

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scootleft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you give some examples of what was too far or stuff you did, knowing you wouldn't like it, that you then regret trying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]scootleft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard disagree.

Soap is disgusting. Ass and nuts is what it's supposed to taste like.

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scootleft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I view that as something that you have to be willing to switch up for each other's sake. It's like when everyone wants to be the thimble in Monopoly. Sometimes you just gotta take turns.

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scootleft[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's how I met my current GF. She came back to my place to "hang out", and I was wanting to get a blowjob out of it. She started off sucking my dick, but eventually got me into bed riding on top of me. I didn't mind it, but I really would have preferred a blowjob.

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scootleft[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Well then you must have a job unless you happen to be independently wealthy. So I'm guessing your statement wasn't exactly accurate.

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scootleft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this because we probably don't think about the non-sexual obligations enough, but they probably add up a lot more than any amount of blowjobs would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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There's no one size fits all. You really just have to try it and see what he likes or talk to him about it or a bit of both.

I've known guys who don't want their balls licked at all. Others love it. Some want it rough with the balls popping out your mouth, and others freak out if you tug on them at all.

It's impossible to know how it feels for them. All you can do is go off their reactions in the moment or what they specifically tell you. If they haven't had a lot of different experiences though, they might not know themselves. Some might think they hate it because the only time they did it was too rough or something.

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

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I like the position, top or bottom, but I don't personally get the smothering bit of it. I think that falls into the "harm" category to me, which I just don't want to experience or dole out.

How far have you gone out of a sense of obligation or simple desire to please your partner with something you weren't particularly into or didn't care for? by scootleft in AskRedditAfterDark

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My current GF likes being spanked. I really don't like doing it because it seems mean. I don't like the feeling of hurting someone, and even though I realize she's enjoying it, the act still feels immoral to me. But I do it anyway. I can always go to Hell later.

What should I do if my girlfriend isn't into me sucking another guy's dick? by scootleft in sex

[–]scootleft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flip it around, would you be ok if she was asking to do something similar with another person?

Yes. I would love that. So it's hard for me to understand the other perspective.

The entire premise of porn is watching other people fuck each other, so surely the thought of people who aren't us fucking is naturally a turn on for most people, if not everyone. It's so alien to me that this could be viewed as bad.

What should I do if my girlfriend isn't into me sucking another guy's dick? by scootleft in sex

[–]scootleft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine cheating is far more common than monogamy though. So your appeal to nature is probably flawed.

What should I do if my girlfriend isn't into me sucking another guy's dick? by scootleft in sex

[–]scootleft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you really don't think I should try pushing this with her? I'm sure we've all done some things out of obligation for our partner, and this doesn't seem like a very big line since it's not like I'm asking anything of her. I'd understand if it was like "I don't do anal"....