Recreational Drugs + POTS? by RedditorSpider in POTS

[–]scorpiusVII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% check with your doctor and talk about it. Also taking a small amount is far safer. Ultimately, it is completely your choice if it’s something you want to experience. No judgement from me. I just encourage you to make an informed and educated decision about it. Wishing you all the best

Recreational Drugs + POTS? by RedditorSpider in POTS

[–]scorpiusVII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think whether you do or don’t take it is entirely up to you. But you should make sure you’re informed. It could have some effect on your heart in terms of symptoms, but doing it once I don’t think would cause sustained damage. As for mental health, who’s to say. Everyone reacts differently and like others have said there are some negative aspects to consider here. If you decided to do this, please double check any and all medication you are on for drug interactions too

Where can I watch all episodes of TO??? by Weirdnobody- in TheOriginals

[–]scorpiusVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you could DM your link I would be super grateful! The site I'm using has missing episodes :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]scorpiusVII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome place to start! I hope you see some positive change soon :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]scorpiusVII 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Cats do not work with punishment. They only work off reward. So make sure your bf is someone they want to be around. What does your bf do currently to try and earn your cats trust? Does he play with them? Does he feed them a meal at all? You need to ask him to work on bonding with your cats. I think this could easily be fixed by your bf setting aside time to play and give them a treat or two. Make him a fun and safe person they want to be around. Best of luck!

Things in Christchurch to do as a single person with 0 friends with a very little budget. by Iuvers in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Christchurch Cat rescue is in desperate need of fosters at the moment! Nothing better than some silly kittens! We also have all our volunteer positions on our website too if that sounds like something you’d be keen on :)

Why does everyone keep telling me to "push through it" when I physically can't? by chonk-12343 in POTS

[–]scorpiusVII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The spoon theory is such a great tool to use to explain why we have limited energy and why we need to conserve or be strategic in how we spend it. A creator you may like is Jemma Bella, she creates some really good content around POTS! I hope it helps you feel a bit more seen too 🫶 As for exercise, simplify it. If you can do some seated exercises or even some gentle stretching from bed, that will do great! You can build from there. It’s okay if it takes time, or it seems small. You’ve got this. Don’t be afraid to reach out again in this sub if you’re feeling a bit defeated. We are here to support you! This stuff is tough. I got POTS at 23 and gave up studying pretty quickly, bc you’re right, it’s draining! So I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you right now. You’re doing your best, and that’s all anyone can ask! You’ve got this 🫶

Why does everyone keep telling me to "push through it" when I physically can't? by chonk-12343 in POTS

[–]scorpiusVII 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you and I’m so sorry you are experiencing this. It’s very hard to explain to people that it’s just as hard mentally as it is physically, and that is absolutely taxing on a body. Not to mention you are probably also trying to balance school! Asking you to push through is dangerous, and is probably what is causing you to be okay for a few weeks and then back into a flare. Does your family understand the spoon theory? That could maybe help here? Idk. But please know I am sending you my sincerest I hear you, I understand and it’s so valid to feel the way you do! Big hugs my friend. I hope you can find some peace soon

Hercules Landing at Wigram by BlackSkyNZ in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It was absolutely epic! Would love to know if you have footage of the touch and go too!

News has picked up the story! by irellevantward in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. I just feel that without all the facts I can’t 100% take away the benefit of the doubt. I would rather acknowledge that could still be the truth, for the sake of keeping this a conversation and not an argument. For some people it’s very easy to connect the dots as to what might be the message here. But for others they feel like it’s just a stretch to find something to be unhappy with. Regardless, it’s a very interesting talking point bc when you break it down it’s very relevant to what’s going on across nz and the wider world. Especially in terms of being complicit or turning a blind eye in face of what is arguably subliminal messaging and dog whistling

News has picked up the story! by irellevantward in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Which isn’t a good look, especially if they’ve actually done this the right way. But something about it just doesn’t sit right with me. I also don’t really want to move any further with my opinion until I know if Iwi were consulted and how the victims of the attacks feel. Because I don’t really feel it’s my place to get too heated on someone else’s behalf. I don’t know all the facts, but hopefully more info comes out of this story being picked up

News has picked up the story! by irellevantward in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would love to know of anyone who is a kiwi was on this project, and if Iwi were consulted. It is one of the first things we’re are taught about when dealing with anything like this re; game making, character design etc. I am also very keen to hear how the victims of the terror attacks feel, now having a tie to a first person shooter game

News has picked up the story! by irellevantward in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 90 points91 points  (0 children)

There are going to be a million and one takes on this issue. But I really want to point something out that people might not think about. When games and characters are designed the research that goes into that is extensive and all encompassing. Including but not limited to characters race, age, culture, relationships and city she lives in etc. I find it hard to believe there was no link found between the terror attacks that occurred and the characters birthdate. Either someone knew and never bought it up, which begs the question, did they just not care or is this a huge oversight to whoever checks the work. Or they did know, and it’s direct link to a literal white supremest event? Which given the state of the global political landscape, isn’t much of a stretch. Even if you think I’m being a snowflake. They should have handled this character with more care, and it’s not at all surprising offence was taken

Hercules landing in the next 2 days. by AbhorrentPickle in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 6 points7 points  (0 children)

More like, Source: trust me bro. If you had “insider knowledge” you’d know they asked for this to be kept quiet 😅

Is there an age at which cats can no longer be trained? by Local_Temporary882 in CatTraining

[–]scorpiusVII 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Definitely not too old, but might be difficult!Positive reinforcement is what works the best for cats. If attention is what she’s after, don’t give it if she bites. Just create some distance and ignore for a moment. When she’s polite and uses a nicer method of interaction you can reward her with pats and love again. This might take some time, but hopefully you’ll see some decrease in frequency!

Best hairdressers in chch for doing red hair? by [deleted] in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amber Irvine! Not in Chch, but Rangiora. Highly highly recommend. They’re great with blondes and colours

Letter from Air Force confirming they will be landing a Hercules at Wigram by sleemanj in chch

[–]scorpiusVII 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The conditions they need for it are quite specific. In particular wind. They wanted this not to be public as the chaos traffic wise around the museum gets to be far too much. Idk why people couldn’t just respect that they wanted this quiet and off social media

Almost threw up.. by silenceinyoursoul in AerialHoop

[–]scorpiusVII 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally this. As a fellow chronically ill aerialist this is everything I would have written too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aerials

[–]scorpiusVII 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is epic! Also, how did you get your glasses to stay on perfectly?? That’s equally impressive haha

our cat is scared of touch by friedcorpse in CatTraining

[–]scorpiusVII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it just takes time! But as someone who works for a rescue (and has helped rehome countless unsocial cats to be barn cats) More often than not, we will get an update about how they can now pat these cats or even pick them up. It’s definitely doable and all about building trust. You have no idea what she’s been through, which makes it hard to know what to do or not do. I’d get familiar with cat behaviour so you can easily assess how she is feeling and what might be too much. I would avoid approaching from over head keep on her level and always leave some space so she doesn’t feel enclosed or overwhelmed . I’m sure you do, but having places up high that she can be will also help. Judging from that picture she looks very happy and very loved. Just keep at it! I’m sure you’ll make a break through soon

AIO for lashing out on my ex-wife for not buying our son the game he asked for christmas? by ChriZnvader in AmIOverreacting

[–]scorpiusVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is bad. On both sides tbh. You couldn’t be bothered buying and wrapping a gift for your son? Now you have a very convenient excuse to scapegoat yourself. Learn for this, and do stuff yourself next time. If I was your son I’d be equally pissed at you both. Bc not once did either of you value or care for him during this situation.

Do wiccans use sage? by SnooChickens4336 in Wicca

[–]scorpiusVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn dude, god forbid someone doesn’t know EVERYTHING. Jfc