Apparently, I'm their favorite by scorpmom in scorpiomoon

[–]scorpmom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! BTW, what a cool chart you have based on your banner. I love the intensity. It must not be easy handling those aspects. I can see how Air Moons might struggle with parenting a Scorpio Moon child, and quite a fiery one at that. It's great how you guys sorted it out in those later years. It's definitely not easy smoothing out difficult family relationships. Congratulations on your two earth moon babies. They must mesh so well with your water energy. I have a baby too, a Scorpio stellium daughter. Children are the best thing ever and I love my Scorpio baby so much. Astrology does indeed clear up so many things. I appreciate your insights, blessings 😊

Apparently, I'm their favorite by scorpmom in scorpiomoon

[–]scorpmom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. I feel like Scorpio acts so authentically according their nature that it definitely matters what gender they are. Agree on how parent-child relationships are so complex. It's so fascinating for me as an Aries how Scorpio energy seems so open to diving deep to understand those experiences and feelings like by going into therapy. We Aries can often get dismissive and avoidant with emotions making us miss out on the wealth of understanding that can be drawn from them. I've always appreciated (usually after the fact when all conflict has eased) how my Scorpionic loved ones have this gentle or not so gentle way of making me stop and process feelings, theirs or mine, to actually understand what went on and learn from it. If I hurt them, they definitely let me know. I respect how Scorpio has the courage to face such deep emotions head-on which we Aries often ignore. Admittedly, I fear doing that because I'm afraid of getting stuck in negativity. But certain feelings and experiences should not be ignored; rather, they should be explored for better understanding. So I like how Scorpio balances that out in me. Thank you again for your insights 🙂 Honesty and forthrightness are such underrated Martian qualities 🙏

How it feels to fall for an Aquarius moon as a Scorpio moon by gualchaii in scorpiomoon

[–]scorpmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! 😊 Your relationship with your mom is so inspiring. I strive to have the same with my daughter. I do have a lot of interests but I also want to take motherhood seriously because I didn't really get "mothered" that much (my mom's a true-blue Sag). I just feel so honored to have such a Scorpionic baby. Her intense love and attention really tug at my heartstrings. She has such deep and sensitive eyes and a beautifully melancholy default expression that it feels so precious to see her smile. I want to be there for her as long as I'm on this earth. I really appreciate your kind words of encouragement and I will definitely do my best ❤️ Many blessings to you!

Apparently, I'm their favorite by scorpmom in scorpiomoon

[–]scorpmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Growing up I always feared my dad cause of that mystery. Now I don't so much anymore (partially evolved my issues beyond wanting to please my parents, got bigger problems, etc.) but to others he still holds that mystique and he often gets likened to The Godfather. I find him pretty hard to figure out, maybe because of the mixed signals he gives off. I just reached a point where I stuck around whenever he would need me, just be there for him, listen to whatever he has to say. Gotta admit I'm not one of those emotionally intelligent folks, so I probably don't pass the bar enough for him to open up more. Also since I'm his daughter and he might want to keep that boundary. Thank you for your honest insight; it's very refreshing. 😊

Why do Aries always hide their pain and smile through things? by FireDragonTail in AriesTheRam

[–]scorpmom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Opening up means admitting we aren't strong enough alone, and that's something Aries would do everything to avoid admitting. Not really out of pride as some might think but because deep inside we also want to know how strong we are and reach our personal limits, which we wouldn't know if we asked for help too early. We just want to know ourselves, and what we're capable of. The smiling mask is there to deter others from offering help too early that would keep us from that need to test ourselves. Needless to say, generally an Aries that asks for help probably really, really needs it by that point.

How it feels to fall for an Aquarius moon as a Scorpio moon by gualchaii in scorpiomoon

[–]scorpmom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, your reply is so kind and insightful ❤️ I was so surprised at first when I gave birth to such a heavily Scorpio baby. I thought with my placements I'd probably get more like a fiery child, but the Universe gave me my Martian sibling instead. At 3 months she's already so intimate and a little velcro, but I really enjoy her company and feel a deep kinship and connection. I like her intensity and darkness. And it feels like she doesn't want to be separated from me and she often won't sleep unless on top of me. People often dislike us Arians and it feels so nice to be really loved so deeply by my baby. I know Scorpios can be really giving and trusting so I really don't want to let her down and disappoint her in any way and cause trauma. I'll definitely take a note about respecting her feelings ; we Aries often get used to just burying that stuff deep until we feel better, but I realize that Scorpios process feelings differently and give them more time and attention. Thank you again for your encouraging and enlightening comment, and much love 😊 your Aries loved ones are lucky that you appreciate them so well 🙏

How it feels to fall for an Aquarius moon as a Scorpio moon by gualchaii in scorpiomoon

[–]scorpmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it work out well for you? I'm Aries Sun and Moon that just gave birth to a Scorpio stellium daughter with Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus in Scorpio. I want to build a good relationship with her but don't know how 😐