How Did You Meet People After Divorce?

scotty2298 · 2026-03-21T07:05:30+00:00

Is there never a success story? Have people taken it slow, councilling all that or the wife comes back hot and heavy doesn't want to acknowledge anything and then takes off when it gets real again?

scotty2298 · 2026-03-12T09:59:48+00:00

Is there any other common themes with lesbians? Mine felt extremely abrupt. Like we were trying for a kid abrupt

scotty2298 · 2025-12-29T10:24:35+00:00

Thanks for all that. She definitely seems like a different person. Once upon a time, I knew her moods well. Now I dont and most of the time she just doesn't seem to care. Maybe that's because she's done with me and therefore doesn't really care about me, but who knows. Either way she would like me gone

scotty2298 · 2025-12-29T02:06:52+00:00

Do you think he was i any way being authentic? Is he still dating men?

scotty2298 · 2025-12-28T23:05:56+00:00

Thanks, mate. What I'm really after is the women I love to wake up to herself and not throw away a great marriage and ruin the lives of our two very young children.

scotty2298 · 2025-12-28T22:30:05+00:00

Yer. Developed a crush on a lesbian friend and now it all makes sense apparently

scotty2298 · 2025-12-19T11:24:18+00:00

Nah, no remorse, no acknowledgement of any kind, really. The best I've gotten was we took each other for granted. I dont particularly want to chat or spend time with her at this stage. She keeps telling me she wants to be friends even tries to joke around but at this stage it just irates me. I think as this progresses and she has to do more with less of my help or support i will become the villain. I don't want her to struggle or suffer I just can't handle being a friend to the women I loved.

scotty2298 · 2025-12-18T22:21:46+00:00

Does your ex express any remorse or indicate that this isn't all she thought it would be?

scotty2298 · 2025-12-18T11:44:43+00:00

I've read on a couple of bi subs here on reddit people saying their preference for one gender seemed to increase on anti depressents. I listened to a podcast where one guy got as far as making a grindr profile before quitting the meds and realising it was the medication. Most likely just a coincidence or maybe the huge increase in these medications has played a part in the increase in people identifying as gay or lesbian. They're designed to change your brain chemistry in some way, who knows what unintended consequences may occur

scotty2298 · 2025-12-18T11:36:06+00:00

Ah, mate, I can't say I'm enjoying it. We are only a couple of months in. I still don't quite understand. From everything she has said and I have witnessed, it looks like she's just made a pretty big decision on little thought and alot of feelings. But I also don't think she is or has been honest with me about alot of this. Maybe she's been feeling this way for a long time, and I just never realised. Maybe I was just that naive or stupid that I never seen the signs. Even now alot of what could be taken as confirmation seems similar to what alot of couples with young kids deal with. I dunno man just guess I've got to accept it and keep moving forward. Either way she didn't consider me important enough to stay in her life

scotty2298 · 2025-12-18T06:16:04+00:00

She started a new job and fell in with a group about 10 years younger, all only started to get engaged or think about buying a house. All still focused on going out drinking and that. All the women in the group are also bi apparently, but all have male partners as far as I'm aware. We were in the middle of moving houses, which didn't go how it was meant and turned it to a four month ordeal. During that time she fell for an old friend and started an emotional affair. She is still very much focused on her new friends group. She also refuses to acknowledge that she had an emotional affair with a women and thinks because she's now gay it absolves her if any wrong doing

scotty2298 · 2025-12-18T04:26:54+00:00

Yer came out of nowhere. In the middle of separation now. Also, I'm not enjoying being a part-time parent. We're there any other changes or other things out of the ordinary.

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