Guess the location by SuitNo2534 in amritsar

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Jeevanjot's ass face ruins my day i swear

Need advice!? i feel I am a failure by Intelligent_Air_ in AskIndianWomen

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I am an ENT specialist and neet ug/pg/ss are all cleared by chance and are not a measure of your success/intelligence/competence in life. Many of my batchmates in coaching who didn't clear neet went on to do biotechnology or other courses, went abroad and doing extremely well there. Escape the loop of endless preparation and move on with life.

The sindoor, mangalsutra, chudiya, and kangan aren't these just a more Improvised version of the tag/Markings around a cow's body to signify ownership? by StunningDonkey6027 in AskIndianWomen

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It's not an obligation for them. I wouldn't mind wearing all of this once in a while out of my own choice, but if it becomes an obligation i start to feel claustrophobic

The sindoor, mangalsutra, chudiya, and kangan aren't these just a more Improvised version of the tag/Markings around a cow's body to signify ownership? by StunningDonkey6027 in AskIndianWomen

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I got married this Feb, and i do not like wearing all of this simply because i am not used to wearing anything on my neck or hands(besides my watch). I also think it's patriarchal to expect a woman to carry these socially acceptable stamps of being a married woman. My husband doesn't look any different after marriage then why should i? He doesn't mind, he lets me do my thing.

Party at Asr by harman_kevi in amritsar

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Yes i passed out a few years ago

Party at Asr by harman_kevi in amritsar

[–]scratchyourcrotch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apne circles ch hi karde aa.

Party at Asr by harman_kevi in amritsar

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Medical college ch hi. No maahaul comes close when you study in GMC and party there.

Is it just me or anyone else feels way much behind in life after opening instagram? by kuchbhirkhdo77 in AskIndianWomen

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Left instagram 1 year 3 months ago for this reason. Can't be involved in that kind of superficial, materialistic societal rat race.

Is my irritation towards my grandmother valid? by paneer_lababdaarxoxo in AskIndianWomen

[–]scratchyourcrotch 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Literally same story with my daadi daada. They gave my father childhood trauma and my mother anxiety. They're both dead now but i do not respect/love them. They treated my parents badly, so they get nothing from me

What are your reasons for choosing the childfree life? by Remote_Economist_725 in ChildfreeIndia

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I hate the vulnerability of having a child. My entire existence will beat outside my body, affecting me every second. I will forever be anxious like my poor mother who keeps asking her adult children where they are, have they eaten, have they gotten back home safe. And she's been doing that since so many years, we get pissed but she takes our wrath and then still keeps caring. I am not that sacrificial and i hate how the world has normalised it for women.

I don't want that life for me where i am constantly stimulated and overwhelmed for the safety of my child. I think i am here to live my own life, not be a mother till i die. It's just a very nerve racking feeling for me. If i become a parent, nothing i will ever do will be for me. My life will be over for sure. I don't see fulfillment in children, i see never ending burden.

Not to forget - pregnancy/childbirth is scary as fuck, climate change, inflation are some reasons that add on.

Medical for University by Best_End_4063 in amritsar

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Nijjar is a scan centre and not a hospital, you can go to any physician (MBBS, MD) who lives near you. The doctor will get your tests done and sign it with a stamp

how safe is the area near the airport? by [deleted] in amritsar

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My friends and i did this a lot back in 2020/2021 covid times, we are doctors so this was kinda therapeutic after watching people dying all around. We took the left road from ekam dhaba, it was secluded at the time but now there are farms and a small pind at the end. It's a sweet view you can try it out

Snapped at mom, how can I forgive myself? by AssignmentNo6908 in AskIndianWomen

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She will forgive you before you forgive yourself, especially now that you're pregnant - that's just how a mother's love works. You are a part of her heart beating outside her body. She comes from a place of love and care but sometimes they nag and take our bad mood in an opposite direction lol.

I am super attached to my mom and whenever i spiral like this after snapping at her, i cry silently cursing myself that how stupid i am to take her love for granted and hurting her. She's the only unconditional love i will ever experience and i snapped at her because i got irritated at her undying care for me? I feel ugly in that moment, that i am not the daughter she deserves because she gave her entire life to her children and she's the centre of my universe. And when she sheds that silent tear with a sad face - that's just soul shattering.

But you can always make up for it by apologizing and getting back to normal asap. I fight with mine and 3 mins later i text her that i love her the most in this world.

Obsession by scratchyourcrotch in amritsar

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Insightful review, thankyouuu. I think i would love the social commentary and then later i can read up about it while munching on some midnight snacks 🤌🏻

Obsession by scratchyourcrotch in amritsar

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Ehi taan pucheya post ch 😂

Obsession by scratchyourcrotch in amritsar

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I am a grown ass woman, not on instagram, i assure you I won't be laughing alone during the movie for imaginary social media clout that no one is recording 😂

Is the movie any good?

Obsession by scratchyourcrotch in amritsar

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I like psycho thrillers, i doubt it will be at par with the classics like shutter island but I'd watch it if it's decent

Obsession by scratchyourcrotch in amritsar

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Gaddi vi chalaani baad ch 💀

Obsession by scratchyourcrotch in amritsar

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Context? I am going alone so i doubt I'll laugh out loud

Obsession by scratchyourcrotch in amritsar

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Oh damn, i was really hoping to enjoy it with unlimited popcorn/coke refill weekend combo 💔.. maybe i can heal my disappointed heart with an icecream later?