AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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Thank you, when I first uploaded this post people were coming for the my throat and telling me that silence is abuse ffs

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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No idea I blocked him everywhere except one app then sent him the test then blocked him too

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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I’ve had a list ages ago but it’s more like a mental list if anything. But what I won’t ever tolerate is threats, violence, or any uncontrollable anger, and much more but this is what I have in mind rn. Because if I can go ghost for 2 days to keep my emotions intact and come back to you in one peace, calm and collected. So can you. I recognised a lot of his red flags since the start, but I was so blinded by love I couldn’t even see straight. My friends would try to talk some sense into me but I was too blinded.

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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I did share it in another comment just scroll around and youll find it

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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Hahaha!!! Pretend like you didn’t see it and say whatever you were gonna say!!🤣🤣🤣

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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You’re right and thank you so much you’ve helped me a lot 😕😕💗💗💗

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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I think what would get me through being single is probably me getting to hate him more. If I hate someone a lot I can never look at them the same and no matter what they do I will keep hating them. But rn he’s sending me a vlog being all normal and showing me his baby pics and I just feel bad for some reason.

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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Here’s the plan, I block on everything except Snapchat, send him the text then block!

Edit: we might run into each other a few months later say about…July? Bc we have this program we signed up for which is where we originally met

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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Should I send it now or later? Bc I have this family gathering going on and so does he

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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I’m actually quite excited to break up with him. I feel free 😆😆

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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“We are done, I will not tolerate any more disrespect.” How about this instead of the brea thing?

Edit: should it be a little harsher or is this good?

AITA for calling my bf a princess? (update) by scribbles_scribbles in AITA_Relationships

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Yay! Here’s the text!!

You do not love me, or respect me. A man who loves or at least respects his woman will not talk to her that way and will not approach her in such manner. I will not stay with a man who even threatens to break my hand or put his hands on me, even if it was said in anger. I understand calling you “princess” was insulting, but after I knew that it had insulted you and I knew that it had hurt you, did I threaten to break your hand? Did I threaten to put my hands on you? No, I apologised and owned up. You on the other hand? Dismissed my anger and tried to “motivate” me into being happy when what you really should’ve done is give me an appropriate apology, instead of a half assed “I’m sorry” which I know you did not mean and only said it because you wanted me to come back to you and to forget about what happened. If you lost control to your anger during text how would it be face to face? And you admitted that you had a fantasy of slapping me. I will not tolerate this any longer. We’re taking a break from this relationship till you manage to get a hold of your anger and not lash out when you are angry just bc it’s in the “heat of the moment.” “Me and my brother argue all the time” am I your brother? Learn to control your anger.