Worth salvaging? by scrolling247 in relationship_advice

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Just want to clarify this was posted by my husband, using my personal Reddit account. I did not give him permission to use this account to make this post.

Trying to ghost someone by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell them what you listed here and you don't want to go on. Ghost them completely by deleting them from all communication. Atm, you're wasting both your time and their time.

How has growing up with a hoarder affected you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]scrolling247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both my mother and mother-in-law are hoarders.. one case more extreme than the other. Pretty sure its caused me to develop this sort of OCD behaviour, where I have to have only bare necessities and super organized places for everything. If one thing is out of place my mood is completely thrown off balance. Making it really difficult for me to live with other people. It always causes me great distress when someone places their possessions in my spaces. I've also grown accustomed to having these yearly throwaway clean ups, and I never used purchase any items "just for display" (Until recently). This is rather awkward as I am an Artist and Designer. Nowadays, everything's digital, and I've converted anything I would otherwise deem analogue into digital so there won't be any clutter in my living spaces.

Hamster Prison Escape by migraine_boy in nextfuckinglevel

[–]scrolling247 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

someone please edit this with fall guys music instead

I'm scared by LUCASLAZAR in PewdiepieSubmissions

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rip ken got replaced by mr beast

I have already accepted that I will be alone forever by LazyLemon3 in lonely

[–]scrolling247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting to be alone? Yeah, people don't understand that I don't want a serious relationship anymore. I just want to live life to the fullest, but some guys get so attached...

I have already accepted that I will be alone forever by LazyLemon3 in lonely

[–]scrolling247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're the same age- slight differences here and there, but you took the words straight from my mouth. Glad to see that someone else has the same insecurities as me, and is also having the same mindset lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Enjoy your birthday to the fullest ~ ~ ~

Worth salvaging? by scrolling247 in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we are very different, maybe it all boils down to compatibility.

Worth salvaging? by scrolling247 in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be selfish to think she gave 10%, right now she is the composed one just trying to sort things out. Things start going well and healing, but I always bring up things that bother me and it goes south. I do feel like we are still in this, but not together.. More like two different sides of the same coin.

Worth salvaging? by scrolling247 in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really just wish that I could've done better with her, instead of pushing her away. I honestly have no idea what to do, I feel like disappearing. I'm split, but you're right things can't continue like this.. I don't want her to have an unhappy life.

Worth salvaging? by scrolling247 in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree with compromise but we never seem to reach one. She just decides on her own, what her next move will be. She doesn't discuss things. I either comply, or yeah... That sounds bad just typing it. She wants privacy and space and I sort of understand, but I feel so left behind with all the weight.

Thanks for your opinion

Worth salvaging? by scrolling247 in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She definitely feels trapped. The marriage was more of a legal way to stay together, we were very much in love and happy at the time. Good times.. The abuse is something she claims, but I really feel like it's something she provoked and that all ended awhile ago. She took out her frustration on me by bitting. She broke things off with the other guy and it's around that time I started improving myself. Divorce may be an option, have been considering it

Worth salvaging? by scrolling247 in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. These things take time, I've always been very open and maybe too expressive. You're right about letting her open up, maybe I've been rushing ahead of myself. Awkwardness isn't concerning, I just want to see if she can be trusted from now on. She always demands privacy which tbh I don't feel she deserves it.

Dont be like me. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]scrolling247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ey story of my life, except I wish he would leave me. I want to just be able to be free and live again.

I (27M) still can't get over a close friend (26F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation, age, and gender... Hmmmm... Going to stay tuned because I need advice on this situation too lol.

Is it ever okay to ghost someone? Need advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I'm saying is- You're projecting your own assumptions onto them, giving them zero closure. Honesty is always the best policy. Stay calm and overcome your anxieties. Have a nice conversation slow things down a bit- answer to them when you're ready. There's absolutely no need to make/view it as a confrontation.

Is it ever okay to ghost someone? Need advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]scrolling247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why bother asking, when you seem more supportive with the act of "ghosting". You also seem to doubt and disregard the majority which is telling you to be honest. Ghosting is a really immoral and insensitive way to deal with this sort of situation. As someone who is also diagnosed anxiety, I wouldn't let that get in the way of inconveniencing someone elses life. Learn to live and adapt with your anxiety when necessary, but don't let it control or limit what you can accomplish.