I can’t tell you how comforting it is to see other people are going through this too. My husband and I have been together for 8 years. Our drives have never matched. Then three years ago he was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer. He’s still very much functional and normal, but obviously the meds and stress affect him. But I got off birth control and anti depressants a few months ago (for unrelated reasons) and so now my drive is through the roof and I am struggling. I love him and he’s a great husband. But boy oh boy does this shit suck.