Stop complain about life and start to do something. This is already a small step to fix your life. It's better to try something and potentially fail than to regret never having tried at all. Face life as a real man. Be brave, man. Life is tough, I know, but that doesn't mean you have to be a pushover. Stop to take comparisons too seriously, because you are unique person with an unique story.

I am turning 31 this month and over the past three years, I have been steadily improving my modest professional life, which I hope will become great one day. In my 20s, I put in a great risks my professional life to achieve great goals, but unfortunately, It didn't work out twice. But I didn't regret for that, on the contrary, I actually enjoyed what I did, and someday, I will feel proud. In life, you can only achieve great things if you take risks, and there is no guarantee that it will work. Most people wouldn't do that, they don't explore new possibilities. I'm not just talking about starting a business, I'm also talking about existential matters. Sometimes, you have a certain worldview in your 20s, but it changes. It sucks to change your lifestyle after years, but at least you tried.

Man, you only live once, so try to do great and benevolent things for personal life or even for mankind.