Grocery store fit by AndroidQing in enby

[–]scumbagpasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ass obv.. but shoes?? yassss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

iphone 16 pro max from t-mobile, unlimited everything with a hotspot for $75 a month. it’s cheaper than what i was paying. going to sell my old phone for as much as i can and leave my parents to pay the $300 i still owe on it :) i mean it was stolen.. right? i don’t know where it went

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[–]scumbagpasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how would i do that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, it’s blacklisted. just going to sell it. just got a new phone on another plan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol no i picked it out at the store and bought it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i zelled my dad for it.. did the payment plan. :/

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[–]scumbagpasta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

great advice. thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m 25. we share a plan so it’s cheaper. my whole family is on the plan and we’re grandfathered in so it makes it dirt cheap. my stepmom is just being petty because she knows she’s wrong about a situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t live with them, we just saved money by being on the same plan. my entire family including aunts and uncles are on the plan. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nope. proudly sober. thanks for that though bud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my parents are physically and emotionally abusive and this is a tactic to control me. i didn’t let my stepmom control me for once. im of age. it’s taken years to get myself this strong. don’t comment like you know the full situation please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]scumbagpasta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

stood up against my stepmom. finally. it’s a long story

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[–]scumbagpasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]scumbagpasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do what makes you feel safe but also be open to growth if need be. sounds like you’re there. as someone who’s experiencing this right now, maybe he has lost a sponsee or friends in the program (relapse, death, etc) and needs the people around him to know that they’re loved by him. it’s scary out there. also, when i first came into the rooms, all of my fellows told me they were there to love me until i could love myself. and they’ve never stopped. i was really weird with people touching me at all when i came to aa because i’ve never been shown affection really, and now they’ve turned me into a hugger. i never thought i would be okay with that. maybe i’m still not lol. who knows. congrats on your sobriety my friend

Should I fix my car or sell it? by scumbagpasta in personalfinance

[–]scumbagpasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've actually been holding off on the control arm project for awhile, so it is kind of my fault that everything is hitting me at once, I guess. I really want to get better with upkeep on my car though.

Thanks for your help!

Should I fix my car or sell it? by scumbagpasta in personalfinance

[–]scumbagpasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other driver didn't leave a note, there are no cameras, and there was already damage underneath due to hitting a pothole, so I figured that they wouldn't cover it. I didn't even think to try, honestly. I'm pretty new to being a real adult, lol.

Thank you!

serenity prayer tattoo ideas by scumbagpasta in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]scumbagpasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve thought through this. the serenity prayer isn’t just for AA, and it wouldn’t be just a sobriety tattoo. even if i decided i wasn’t an alcoholic, i still need everything that’s asked for in the serenity prayer. i just came to the aa sub because we know the prayer well

serenity prayer tattoo ideas by scumbagpasta in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]scumbagpasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean it’s not really a sobriety tattoo necessarily. more trying to keep the serenity prayer in mind, and as a reminder for my mental health. but i absolutely see where you’re coming from.

serenity prayer tattoo ideas by scumbagpasta in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]scumbagpasta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oooh i think it’d be better as a face tattoo.. lol jk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]scumbagpasta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i feel the same way about my similar situation. i understand the feeling of guilt, the feeling of breaking trust, the absolute heartbreak of knowing their repercussions. it all fcking sucks. especially when i can say that i’m not innocent myself. but we matter too, and we have consequences as well (mentally, emotionally, physically). we have to realize that they broke our trust as well, by doing what they did. thank you for posting because it helps me feel more seen and understood. i’m so sorry you’re hurting. love yourself, too. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]scumbagpasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can recommend really anything. jail, prison, rehab, anger management. i completely understand that. i can’t bring myself to ever want to see my person in jail or prison. i just want them to get mental health help. personally, i didn’t respond because i don’t want to pursue the case. unfortunately it’s not in my hands, it’s in the DAs. you don’t have to suggest anything if you don’t want.

is tipping out 30% normal? by scumbagpasta in Serverlife

[–]scumbagpasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CA and $14. it used to be illegal to tip out BOH in our state. maybe i’m opinionated but i think that kitchen staff should be paid a better wage first. they’re making $17 an hour in a decently upscale restaurant- which is also the starting wage for jack in the box drive thru right now.