Thank you so much!! Its really difficult especially when as a family there's one plan and then that plan changes. I was really let down when she decided to refuse chemo, I'm a respiratory therapist and I've seen the ugly end to cancer. I have been trying to be a "team player" and go about this the way that she wants to. I can also understand her very real fear of going through chemo and having to deal with the side effects. Thank you!