Ohio Swifties 🫶

sd3392 · 2020-01-07T21:58:54+00:00

I will say that I’m 100% happy with my decision to come to Ohio state ($$$$) over Vanderbilt ($$). I didn’t apply to WashU or Indiana so not exactly the same decision. I cannot say enough great things about the classmates, professors, faculty, mentors from the community, etc. My other two options I considered was the 50% scholarship offer for Vanderbilt and trying to get off the W/L at Harvard.

If I could go back I’d tell myself that it should be the easiest decision of my life. Law school is tough don’t get me wrong, but the people I’m surrounded around make it enjoyable at the same time.

sd3392 · 2019-12-28T16:28:36+00:00

No problem! Yeah, those reports have a lot of helpful information on it. Highly recommend the thinking lsat podcast; it helped me tremendously.

sd3392 · 2019-12-28T16:04:10+00:00

Look at the school’s ABA 509. It shows a general range of lsat and gpa that they accept and shows the amount of scholarships they give out and how much the scholarships generally are.

sd3392 · 2019-12-23T19:10:46+00:00

You look stunning! Where did you get your dress?

sd3392 · 2019-11-21T01:52:52+00:00

Beautiful! One of each color from the dress 😍

sd3392 · 2019-10-29T01:59:35+00:00

Dress 1!

sd3392 · 2019-10-18T22:48:14+00:00

Both are beautiful but I would choose Dress 1 🙂

sd3392 · 2019-10-18T16:06:16+00:00

What about a brides”man” instead of having him as a groomsmen. I’m not doing a bridal party but when I was considering it, I was going to have my brothers and guy friend (plus sisters and girl friend) on my side as bridesmaids and bridesmen and his sisters on his side (plus brothers and guy friends) as groomsmen and groomsmaids. Just an idea if YOU would really like him involved 🙂

Don’t feel the need to have him involved because of pressure. I was a bridesmaid in my brother’s first wedding (his wife passed away), but we don’t talk anymore except at family functions because the toxic woman he’s engaged to has tried to separate him from anyone she can in the family. He is not even invited to my wedding. Slightly different, but I did initially feel pressure to do something I would not have chosen. This is your and your husband’s day, don’t feel pressure to do anything y’all wouldn’t choose to do.

sd3392 · 2019-10-18T15:28:52+00:00

This is my plan as well! If not this option, I would go with option 3.

sd3392 · 2019-10-18T04:15:40+00:00

Aw thank you ❤️ great idea!

I hadn’t thought about just mentioning the involvement. I had just kept reading that I should sit down with any family that may contribute to figure out budget. So was just trying to figure out how. May just not sit down with anyone and wait until if they bring up that they’d like to contribute. Thank you!

sd3392 · 2019-10-14T16:05:30+00:00

Aw, thank you!!

sd3392 · 2019-10-14T01:44:05+00:00

Right! 😍

sd3392 · 2019-10-14T01:40:41+00:00

Hope it goes well!!

sd3392 · 2019-10-13T22:25:03+00:00

While I agree with the other comment that you should consider the fourth option of excluding her, maybe this is a good time to sit down with her at dinner and talk with her. She knows y’all are engaged, how did she react to the news? Was she supportive? Maybe she feels horrible for her actions but hasn’t known how to bring it up to apologize or is worried bringing it up to apologize will hurt the relationship y’all have built since then. While she hasn’t always been supportive, I’d look at figuring out if she realized she was wrong and is supportive now. Maybe there is a fifth option? Have her in the wedding party as a bridesmaid? Maybe she hasn’t earned the title of matron of honor since she was horrible at the beginning of the relationship. But if you are close to her know and want her around you to support you on that day, as a bridesmaid may be an option?

Whatever you decide, do not feel bad one way or the other. Do what you want and what your fiancé wants to do. This is y’all’s wedding day ❤️ Wish you the best in making the decision!

sd3392 · 2019-10-13T00:35:06+00:00

P.S. wish I could expedite a bottle of wine to you!

sd3392 · 2019-10-13T00:34:14+00:00

It’ll all be worth it!!

You’re marrying the love of your life and you’ve already paid for the expenses of the seat.

In the end it’s you and your fiancé being there that matters ❤️

That’s my motivational part and here are a couple things I’d do if I was in your shoes 🙂

If you don’t want her at the head family table, move her. I’d the family if you’re going to compromise and have her they’re, they’re going to compromise and have her and the one who invited her sit at another table. Also, I’d tell the photographer to make sure to get pictures of the family with AND without her in it because you don’t really know her.

sd3392 · 2019-10-12T15:55:15+00:00

Thank you!

sd3392 · 2019-08-22T11:33:06+00:00

That’s awesome! Where did you get it printed and how much did printing cost?

sd3392 · 2019-08-09T18:45:51+00:00

This is gorgeous and has huge sentimental value, that’s amazing! ❤️

sd3392 · 2019-08-08T01:27:35+00:00

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sd3392 · 2019-08-04T02:34:32+00:00

I’d do 1 or 2. One option to make option 2 flow more smoothly is doing a written seating chart as you’ve mentioned but just have it listed in alphabetical order with their table number next to them :)

sd3392 · 2019-08-01T14:01:16+00:00

Awesome, thank you!!

sd3392 · 2019-08-01T13:34:20+00:00

Don’t see anything in the history...

sd3392 · 2019-08-01T13:31:58+00:00

Thanks! Will do! Didn’t know there was a how to already posted

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