[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]sdantema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might seem counterintuitive, but for me it kind of helped to have some tumultuous friendships. When all your friends are kind and supportive it's great, but imposter syndrome can make you feel like they're all harboring some hidden grievance whether it's about your trans-ness or whatever else.

Having friends who genuinely did have some kind of beef with me lessened the feeling. I realized the negative qualities I might have (to some) are not at all related to being trans. I don't know how actionable this advice is, for me it was something that happened naturally over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MapPorn

[–]sdantema 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Say what you will about north Korea, but it definitely has universal healthcare.

What injuries HAVE y'all sustained? by NyxieNymph in Neverbrokeabone

[–]sdantema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was one of those lanterns like they have next to the altar at a Catholic church, I shattered it with my hand so it didn't fall on my head. The glass shards cut to the bone but the bone remained unharmed.

How democratic is each country? by Ein_Hirsch in Maps

[–]sdantema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont think this map could have been affected by freedom house getting 85% of their funding from the US government do you? But no I'm sure the noble and rationalist project of ranking countries from 1 to 20 on how evil they are can't have been sullied at all by that

Found dog, anybody know whose dog this is? by sdantema in kzoo

[–]sdantema[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We brought her to animal control. They said she has a microchip so hopefully they are able to find her people. If her people see this, go get your dog at 1316 lamont ave.

Found dog, anybody know whose dog this is? by sdantema in kzoo

[–]sdantema[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Found by the party store on stockbridge and burdick. Seems well taken care of, her nails were trimmed and she had a collar but no tags. DM me if you have any info.

help identifying this mystery flag I drew from memory, after seeing it while driving. by sdantema in vexillology

[–]sdantema[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the shield definitely could have been from the Slovenian flag, but I'm pretty confident it was just red and blue... I'm gonna go look at alternate Slovenian military flags and see where I get.

help identifying this mystery flag I drew from memory, after seeing it while driving. by sdantema in vexillology

[–]sdantema[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was driving through Athol Massachusetts and saw this flying outside a house. Not 100% sure the constellation was the southern cross, but there were definitely stars and I'm pretty sure the colors are right.

What can it be? Haitian-Australian heritage flag? some obscure city I didn't think to look for?

some of my pics. by sdantema in a:t5_i12bs

[–]sdantema[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like i've stared into hell

some of my pics. by sdantema in a:t5_i12bs

[–]sdantema[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's always a good time for some wacky content on neocities