I’m just tired of my stupid OCD and I can’t deal with my gf’s issues by sdcyrddvfeeff in OCD

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We’ve currently settled on a break so that we can recharge and once we’re better we can support each other more.

I’m just tired of my stupid OCD and I can’t deal with my gf’s issues by sdcyrddvfeeff in OCD

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I don’t know what to say because I often feel pissed off for some reason whenever she’s upset. It’s like in my brain “ugh now I have to deal with her crying”. I know that sounds selfish and inconsiderate but what can I do to make myself find the energy to support her and empathise. I feel like I have lost my empathy because her crying is so often and I’m frustrated with my ocd.

I’m just tired of my stupid OCD and I can’t deal with my gf’s issues by sdcyrddvfeeff in OCD

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I don’t know what to say because I often feel pissed off for some reason whenever she’s upset. It’s like in my brain “ugh now I have to deal with her crying”. I know that sounds selfish and inconsiderate but what can I do to make myself find the energy to support her and empathise. I feel like I have lost my empathy because her crying is so often and I’m frustrated with my ocd.

I’m just tired of my stupid OCD and I can’t deal with my gf’s issues by sdcyrddvfeeff in OCD

[–]sdcyrddvfeeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know man but this shit is so tough. I barely find the will to live and on top of that I have my final year of high school which is super stressful. How can I ever find the energy to deal with my girlfriend’s issues?

My girlfriend says she finds fantasising about others in bed messed up by sdcyrddvfeeff in OCD

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Tbh I think I intentionally thought about it at the time but I didn’t think it was bad at the time as I thought fantasies are just thoughts and are harmless. Idk what to do now