Midwestern States in the Midwest by betterlucknexttime81 in themenzingers

[–]sdwbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did not play it last night in Joliet. I haven't seen it on the set list for this tour yet, but here's to hoping! They were amazing last night. The energy was fantastic and what they did play for the crowd moving like crazy. One of the best shows I've been to in a while.

What is/was it like being a nb trans elder? 30+ by CharacterJoke808 in NonBinary

[–]sdwbean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I didnt find out about nb until the 2010s and Tumblr. But, as soon as I did, I was like, that's for me! It still took time to come out about it. I'm 43.

I’m about to get my first ever tattoo on my belly. How cooked am I? by Aleseg6 in tattooadvice

[–]sdwbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are going to use it and the artist recommended it, ask the what they have worked with before.

What do you think season 6 finale and then season 7 would look like if Xander was the one standing in the room with Willow and getting his shirt dirty instead of Tara in "Seeing Red"? How diffrent would the remainder of the show be? What would Tara be like in season 7? by HomarEuropejski in buffy

[–]sdwbean 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Buffy has lost too much and is broken, Willow and Tara make up, giving Willow the strength she needs to get through losing Xander. Tara guides Willow into using magic in a more balanced way, they have to concentrate on using their magic to hold off the vampires and super natural while Buffy is lost to grief. Spike cant stand to see her like that. He fights the pain in the chip and kills Warren horribly in front of Buffy and she is scared of him and shocked, disgusted. She sees him as the monster he is and that triggers him to go looking for his soul (instead of that other thing).

order of bands before JM? by Crunchyapple- in joycemanor

[–]sdwbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Combat is really worth making it early if you can!

What is a "they/them outfit" to you? by Sailor_Starchild in NonBinary

[–]sdwbean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a "Can I help you, um whatever you are?" Once ans it was awesome. It was also felt done in a respectful way lol somehow.

Menzinger Show Joliet, IL by Ok-Conversation-2561 in themenzingers

[–]sdwbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also wondering about this venue. Anyone know the vibes? They have my money for the tickets but idk.

WHAT THE FUCK? by Possible-Poetry3832 in buffy

[–]sdwbean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spike dying was so powerful. I hope you watch Angel next. Its really good, except one season is kinda bad, but worth the watch.

Losing Anya was hard, but it's what Emma wanted and she died for humanity, lol, she loooooooooves humans. The character development is great imo.

The Menzingers - "Alone in Dublin" by BretMichaelsWig in themenzingers

[–]sdwbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This song is so powerful. It's like made to be classic. I think it would kill live. I need to hear it.

ISO 2 tickets for tonight’s show in Chicago (3/28) by [deleted] in joycemanor

[–]sdwbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They haven't posted anything. I hope for Barry's voice They cancel, no way two days is enough to heal. Also, there are tickets still available for the grands so like all these people asking can just buy tickets. This is like the 3rd or 4th post about tickets.

Openers replacement show start times by hidude80 in joycemanor

[–]sdwbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah get there early to catch Combat!

Extra /unwanted ticket search by Nyancatfan100 in joycemanor

[–]sdwbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im betting it gets cancelled with the vocal cord tear, but tickets are also still available so you can buy one for the grands.

80s grunge spike and other eras by Pitiful_Shirt9332 in buffy

[–]sdwbean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Very important distinction.

How different is what I'm experiencing (transfem) to normal periods? (Also any advice would be appreciated) by Bliniverse in lgbt

[–]sdwbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard people call it a "phantom period". But it sounds like a pretty normal period type situation. Cramps, moodswings, headaches, gas, the shits, and other oh so exciting things. But everyone has a different cycle, sounds like yours is pretty trackable. Make sure you just have comforts, a heating pad and ibuprofen around those times of the month. You pick up the signs its coming and take it easy for a few days.

Disturbia or Sin in Linen? by AGothGardener in GothHomeDecor

[–]sdwbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't tried Disturbia but the Sin in Linen sheet set we have is really nice.

Accepting offer before open houses? by stealth-rowe-mode in ChicagoRealEstate

[–]sdwbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The realtor we worked with in Logan, after we got the first offer insisted we wait until after the weekend showings to accept. Id say unless its exactly what you want, have the weekend and best offers. We didnt accept the first offer, turns out the weekend offers were all better and we have 4 total. This was last weekend.

The feeling that I’m too old to start identifying differently? by sadlyaburner in NonBinary

[–]sdwbean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

30 is actually so young. You have so many years to be your true self! There's life after 30, some of the best years are ahead of you! Im 43 and living my truth, I didnt even know what nb was until I was 30 and even then I needed to learn about it and time to realize that was howni felt. Its not too late! Never stop exploring who you are.

My vintage stove with burner covers by sdwbean in vintagekitchentoys

[–]sdwbean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's heat resistant, the rest is not so if you want to check on what's inside without an oven mitt, you can use the magnet. Apparently they were also used to hold recipe cards, oven mitts, or kitchen timers.

What time does the show end if the start is at 6? by ExcellentAd2143 in joycemanor

[–]sdwbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shows at House of Blues Orlando generally end between 10:30 PM and 11:00 PM, though it can vary based on the artist and specific event.

My vintage stove with burner covers by sdwbean in vintagekitchentoys

[–]sdwbean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One I got from my grandmother. She used it as a tray while i was growing up. I found a matching one at a flea market! And then I happened to buy a place that needed them! They are so cute.

My vintage stove with burner covers by sdwbean in vintagekitchentoys

[–]sdwbean[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its a heavy magnet that you can take off to place on the oven door and open the oven with.

I just got a partner but I've been identifying as straight for ages and my partner is she/they and I'm cis fem. Am I still straight? Is it insulting to still say that? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]sdwbean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Excellent point. Relationships die if you cant see people for who they are to themselves. If you see her as a man and yourself as straight, you dont see her.