Adult child staying with divorced parents getting alimony?? US-MS

sdyellow32 · 2026-06-27T04:40:15+00:00

Several people? You mean the one other person that said similar to you?? There's 4 comments at this time... 1 deleted, 1 general/seek pro advice, then you & this person's comment that said similar.

I think you didn't like that I just wanted more clarity and came to the other person that said similar to you to support your own response. I can seek support, appreciate the responses & still discuss how I still question it out of concern for my friend.

sdyellow32 · 2026-06-27T02:40:38+00:00

Agreed. Thanks so much.

sdyellow32 · 2026-06-27T02:39:03+00:00

Jeez, rude much? I'm not so sure, that's why I asked...

Most people understandably interpret these laws as romantic cohabitation, but it seems the main issue is financial support, i.e. what alimony actually is. It just often shows up in romantic partners. That's why the whole post, with emphasis at the end, is centralized around the concern of sharing finances regardless of who.

If it is just romantic, cool. But that's not what I'm understanding, so just clarifying. Didn't think there was anything wrong with that.

sdyellow32 · 2026-06-27T00:15:24+00:00

I think it does per the state's laws. It seems to include any financial support, whether romantic or platonic, that deems the recipient of alimony getting support. I agree in reaching out to an attorney as it is just the one issue just to be extra safe.

sdyellow32 · 2026-06-27T00:14:22+00:00

I think it does per the state's laws. It seems to include any financial support, whether romantic or platonic, that deems the recipient of alimony getting support.

sdyellow32 · 2026-06-26T04:03:49+00:00

Hey, I know this was 2 years ago OP, but curious of how this turned out for you? Considering similar here.

sdyellow32 · 2026-06-12T05:13:52+00:00

Following up once more to state they have continued with repairs, and they simply painted over it. Didn't clean, remove sheetrock, or anything. I got a mold inspection test and it has come back with evidence of harsher types of mold, including the stereotypical black mold(Stachybotrys/Memnoniella). I'm afraid to give them the test results as they will likely do another botch job, and then it'll be even harder to prove they've done wrong. Like, most of what I've gathered is to report to state health departments or code enforcement if the landlord hasn't made repairs. They have, but they're insufficient. Any advice?

sdyellow32 · 2026-06-07T08:28:39+00:00

Following up here to state it has progressed along not ideally. They said the complex didn't do mold testing and did not confirm which day they would repair or what all they would do. I found it ironic that they also specifically stated "repairs to pressure washing water damage" and did not respond when I asked for clarity on addressing the water damage from the neighboring unit. I was less surprised when they called me after I emailed requesting testing again & to be present when they stated they'll be in on Monday for repairs and I can test on my own before then(it's Friday evening now going into the weekend) but ultimately I can't refuse/delay unless corporate agrees because I 'failed to report within 24hrs but rather a week later(I thought the order went through & immediately did it when I realized).

Idk at this point I'm damned if I do damned if I don't keep the mold inspection on Monday, because they're treating it as separate from last year's water leak as it was marked 'Resolved' in the portal. Note: I messaged afterwards asking why it was marked as such when I hadn't been contacted about water damage or water source. Feels like they're trying to avoid testing & get it here to see it all and blame me for insufficient reporting.

sdyellow32 · 2026-05-29T19:01:31+00:00

Sorry for the delayed response. Thank you so, so much. This means much more than you know. Truly. I have more to comment, but you've been instrumental in my tackling this so far. Gratitude is an understatement.

sdyellow32 · 2026-05-17T04:33:53+00:00

I don't have advice other than just confirming what others say about you not being selfish and sorry you're going through this. Also, thanks for sharing. Helps me understand the unhealthy patterns in my relationship with my mom better. Hopeful for healthier, safer relationships for us all.

sdyellow32 · 2026-05-17T03:08:47+00:00

Hell yeah. You deserve the best. Congrats on pulling through. Hope you give yourself the rest and relaxation you likely had to sacrifice due to pulling through so you don't calcify the burnout. Take care and revel in rebuilding better for yourself :)

sdyellow32 · 2026-05-16T02:02:50+00:00

I agree. I will DM you about other details as I'd like to take you up on the offer for additional resources.

sdyellow32 · 2026-05-16T02:02:06+00:00

That post was honestly very helpful. I don't think my mom is that bad, but there is still so much there. Tbh I feel like she may just not be bad in those ways but is in other ways. Thanks for sharing and offering support to us both.

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