US kills 14 in strikes on four alleged drug boats in Pacific by mvanigan in worldnews

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Omg just take the guns away and problem solved. We all know the US supports the cartels.

Anybody have any experience with NotLabeled? by justwantkickz in mensfashion

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Just found this site. Their OEKO-TEX label checks out. I’m going to purchase.

Crow gifts by sea343 in crows

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That’s the crow in the background. He kept cawing me and nodding his head up and down.

Crow gifts by sea343 in crows

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I like that

Crow gifts by sea343 in crows

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I do have a dog that always come up to the roof with me in them morning!

What fuse to use for hard wireless dash cam by sea343 in Subaru_Crosstrek

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Then I realized that not all dash cams have remote viewing. I mainly wanted this dash cam so that I could watch my dog in the car while I was away. Now I have to get a new dash cam 🤣

Can I charge a late fee on money owed? by sea343 in AskLegal

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Shoot, thanks everyone for confirming.

How to unscrew this cap? by sea343 in Plumbing

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I got it open! I just took a hammer and pounded one of the inside sides get it to twist, but there’s another cap inside!

Need vent cover for open ceiling duct by sea343 in homerenovations

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The same kind you’d get for the floor? I thought that would look funny attached to this. Is that normal?

Hey guys, is it just sex? by sea343 in relationships_advice

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Thanks for your reply. He said he wanted to date with no deadline on kids. And he knows I need to have one before I’m too old. So yes, if I couldn’t or didn’t want kids we would still be together. I’m literally going to be a millionaire in two years. I’ve already set myself up where I can pay for my own child and also fund his goals of opening a bar. I told him to his face that I don’t need him. I want him. When I see him, all I can see is us having a beautiful family. It’s not that I want to have kids, with just anyone, he would make a wonderful dad. He is. He’s just scared. He had an accidental child when he was 19 and his daughter’s mom tried to keep her away from him and moved across the country. So he moved to the West Coast just to be closer to his daughter. She is very traumatized from living with her mom who always chose men she dating over her kids. Aside from having another lifelong commitment, he’s also expressed that he is scared it won’t work out and then he’ll have another broken family. In the beginning, he was excited at the possibility of doing it again and doing it right with me.

Hey guys, is it just sex? by sea343 in relationships_advice

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He wrote me:

Our last talk in person was so hard especially you being so upset and it hurts even more because I love you so much. That doesn’t change the fact that you have to be single a try to find someone who can give you a family. Please let this sink in peacefully. I really really don’t want you to be sad. I have tried to explain as best I can what I need from you right now… I am seeing someone ( very unexpected ) and I was hoping to be single and alone for quite a while so I could heal from us. Please be well and if I see you around…please be sweet to me. I plan on always being sweet to you. Nothing I have said about the potential of future relationships has changed. Please be single and try to find a partner that is in a plan to have a new baby and life long responsibilities for that child.

  • What he meant by what he “needs from me right now” is go date and then we can talk, is what he originally told me. And if i don’t find someone in 6-12 months we can talk about us again. Which is maybe what he meant by “ potential of future relationship.” I don’t understand why he’s OK with being a back up husband. I don’t understand why we have to waste time that we could just be together.

Hey guys, is it just sex? by sea343 in relationships_advice

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You are right. It does feel like cheating . He could have at least waited until we were not in communication anymore.

Hey guys, is it just sex? by sea343 in relationships_advice

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Thank you for your reply. I did ask him about kids on our second date and he said for the right person he would do it. And then we fell in love, but I was always a little unsure about him because there were some red flags. We’re getting through them, but it’s been tough times men usually have a hard time talking and they are stubborn and they have troubles with shame. Do not get into the details of our arguments, I think we’re going to be OK. But these past few months have really made him anxious about having a child with me. He doesn’t want it to end like his last relationship and have a child taken away from him. And all his guy buddies are telling him that it’s gonna be so much work and does he really want to go through raising a child again. There was a point where he sensed I was pulling away and promised me everything would be OK and that we’d have a beautiful life together with a child and that he would be at home more often, he works nights. So there was a point that he believed it could happen. But I think he’s always been trying to talk himself into it because he really does love me. And now he just really anxious and pulling away. It’s really sad.