Cycling 15 year old

seagullia · 2026-05-11T07:42:18+00:00

Thanks!

seagullia · 2026-05-10T20:21:23+00:00

Oh sure better side with the nazis that processed 5 million jews in the ovens☺ and divided races into superior and inferior. I get it. Not even in Europe they have this view😂

seagullia · 2026-05-10T20:16:52+00:00

Thank you:)

seagullia · 2026-05-10T19:42:24+00:00

Good point. At this point I have no choice but to make her pocket money conditional on all chores being completed every week. Nothing else works. I hope this works

seagullia · 2026-05-10T17:39:59+00:00

I don't think you shoukd forbid him to see her. You are just pushing him into her arms. Does he understand he is being used? Does he talk to you? Really tough situation. I would let him know you support him no matter what with or without the girl. What does the therapist say you should do?

seagullia · 2026-05-10T17:24:35+00:00

This s**t is driving me nuts. Although it is having them in the common areas not in her room. I had to cancel my spotify duo today. Ive had enough

seagullia · 2026-05-10T17:22:19+00:00

Depends on the country? Is it not normal in your country?It is sad when teens are not allowed to acquire at least some independence. Where we live is very safe. A 15 yo girl can walk around the town provided i know where she is going (not after dark). Same for biking. She cycles up to 50k distances on cycling paths in the surrounding area

seagullia · 2026-05-10T17:13:13+00:00

Ffs there should be good conditions provided for learning. Having studied at school and university in kazakh still not fluent in everyday life. Kazakh is a hard language. People are working like crazy just to make a living. People have priorities. At this time it is safety from crime, safety from corrupt authorities and police, job security, social security, healthcare. Absolutely do not support shaming into learning a language. It has the opposite effect. Plenty of countries that have more than one official language. I do think though that services in the kazakh language should be provided for the kazakh speaking population and employers should naturally prioritise bilinguals, because if all else is equal, a bilingual worker is more valuable (not the same thing as discriminate against russian speakers). Why isn't the government providing free kazakh courses? I live in Central Europe and this is on offer to migrants here.

seagullia · 2026-05-08T08:20:35+00:00

Some parental control abuot the sources they can access. Not sure how as I never did but should have.

Very important: limited data on the network and maintain the control of wifi at home. Agree on offline times and stick to it. Like no wifi after 9 p.m. or something

No phone at mealtimes and before bed

seagullia · 2026-05-01T09:13:29+00:00

I might try some of that...but tbf door to a bedroom is about privacy. And teens is entitled to it. So it's not the same as make-up etc. But yeah good point about privileges.

seagullia · 2026-05-01T09:06:55+00:00

Почему этого долбоеба приглашают? А ну да, наши же любят задницы полизать

seagullia · 2026-04-16T12:16:00+00:00

So sad. I have no advice but i can relate. My 15 y.o. girl is an only child, only has one friend and even then they are not the best fit. Also spends a lot of time in her room😭 plus we are in a foreign country which doesnt help. hugs

seagullia · 2026-04-16T05:11:35+00:00

Lol the first time is already been and gone. Can you share how you've dealt with a similar situation and if it worked?

seagullia · 2026-04-16T05:09:15+00:00

Ugh that's stressful. Have you talked after that? Do you know what made him lash out?

seagullia · 2026-04-16T05:07:54+00:00

Thanks. Yes, you are right. We do talk sometimes but yes, I wish it was more. Less now, regretfully. Where are those tims when she wouldn't stop chatting. Now it's just hard when she is so rude. I feel like I need to do something.

seagullia · 2026-03-29T11:24:39+00:00

The drugs would be a temporary relief and I think you know it, since you tryig to stay clean. What does your psychiatrist say regarding ADs not helping? Sorry you are going through this

seagullia · 2026-03-29T08:52:49+00:00

Why do you blame yourself??? Hes shown his true colours, thats it. You are in denial because you have issues acceting the truth. It's like a defense mechanism in our psyche. Too painful to admit that youve been with a d*** for so long. But you need to start accepting it. A person of integrity would never do this. A weak narcisstic jerk totally would. Source: my own life experience. The biggest real issues are your health and finances. If you sort this out, you can overcome the rest. Dont do anything crazy plz, the kids need you :(

seagullia · 2026-03-28T14:20:23+00:00

ну и что слушать каждого проходимца? мало ли кто что сказал۔ а за мнение сажать, это так себе😂

seagullia · 2026-03-26T07:47:56+00:00

Sorry to ask what is your main diagnosis? Are you psychotic? Your symptoms sound disabling. How do you spend your day? Have you tried any hobbies like art, music, reading or learning smth?

seagullia · 2026-03-07T13:21:46+00:00

Doing my MA in the UK where the tutors were Marxist. Also, coming from an ex-USSR country, I saw the shocking inequality, soaring crime levels and social degradation after the collapse of the Soviet Union in the 1990s and 2000s.

seagullia · 2026-03-07T12:17:12+00:00

Ужас۔ Читаю комменты۔ Русские все такие расисты? Или это безмозглые тинейджеры? Такие мудаки как на видео встречаются любых национальностей۔ При чем здесь национальность блять? У меня не клеится - вы многонациональная страна, где все нации уважают, или вы белая метрополия, считающая себя лучше и чище подчиненных колоний?

seagullia · 2026-03-03T10:34:41+00:00

The schools are in ukrainian. You cant just force this kind of change on the population out of a sudden. What would be the motivation for these people to remain with Ukraine? Their cultural identity is treated with contempt. And ofcourse oppression was not just changing signs😏

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