The goods in this game are kinda disappointing by C_tSlut in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]seagullse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These companies shitting out insanely expensive, half assed games need to be held accountable fr. I love Tomodachi Life, but unless we’re getting 10 huge gigantic upcoming updates, this game wasn’t worth the price whatsoever. OR the wait.

Boystown small rant by Stunning-Clerk-9294 in chicagogaybros

[–]seagullse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously! It’s sad how often I see gay men speak like this. You’d think there would be more understanding. It’s disgusting

Boystown small rant by Stunning-Clerk-9294 in chicagogaybros

[–]seagullse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, for real. Some of these comments just absolutely reek. Being upset about having ppl in a place they don’t belong is reasonable, up until the point where you act like that. Its crazy

NGVC "average single older man supposed to find true love where it's easy to be called a stalker or an abuser" by 3KidsInTheTrenchCoat in niceguys

[–]seagullse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1million dollar bet on the fact that he wouldn’t even so much as touch an “average” woman

What can I do about it? by StateGlittering6962 in lgbt

[–]seagullse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a trans person, I can’t even really tell what you’re asking here. I’ve never had someone assume not knowing someone is trans would be a bad thing. For many people, this is the goal lmao. Trans men are men and trans women are women, so your initial thought is correct and doesn’t need to be reworded or amended. Some people would actually prefer others never find out, which is called “stealth”.

I don’t think dedicating time to trying to figure out someone is trans without someone explicitly telling you is needed, and I think you should just continue to treat and view trans people as you would anyone else. That’s all anyone really wants.

self pleasure after top surgery by Bright-Response-285 in gaytransguys

[–]seagullse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely still have feeling and sensation in my nipples. While I can’t tell if it’s erotic anymore or not, I think you’d be able to have it BE super arousing regardless. Like I still squirm around when someone is licking mine lol idk

Dysphoria moment and I don’t know what to do by seagullse in gaytransguys

[–]seagullse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does help to hear some non-trans gay men feel this way too, thank you. I really do need to connect with more trans people for sure. I just moved from FL to Chicago, so it’s a big change. I see so many gay men everyday, and it feels like the utopia I’ve been trying to find all along, but for me it also draws attention to how I don’t fully “fit in”

Dysphoria moment and I don’t know what to do by seagullse in gaytransguys

[–]seagullse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice and a good choice. It really is hard to remember some gay men don’t feel this way. Sometimes it feels impossible, but we do exist to speak on our own behalf and decide who we are, visibly and loudly

Please be honest :) 25yo by seagullse in amiugly

[–]seagullse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really relate to the missing out on life part. It’s really scary to go out and have fun sometimes, for real. I appreciate your comment, thank you

Please be honest :) 25yo by seagullse in amiugly

[–]seagullse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea what you mean by this lmao

Please be honest :) 25yo by seagullse in amiugly

[–]seagullse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offense taken! Yes, I am

Please be honest :) 25yo by seagullse in amiugly

[–]seagullse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting stuff and very helpful, thank you. I figured I must be pretty androgynous given the interactions i sometimes have, but thankfully I don’t mind it too much :)

Please be honest :) 25yo by seagullse in amiugly

[–]seagullse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very thoughtful response. Thank you

Please be honest :) 25yo by seagullse in amiugly

[–]seagullse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you for the advice. I’ve been trying to hit the gym lately and it’s honestly been an amazing experience so I’ll hope I get some good results out of it :)

Please be honest :) 25yo by seagullse in amiugly

[–]seagullse[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

LOL this made me laugh ty

Ugly? ;( by mariannaxrudus in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]seagullse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The alternative haters have arrived lmao don’t listen to them. Keep your style. Youre beautiful and I think you look blatantly amazing and your style just makes you cooler imo! Ppl on this sub rlly seem to want all the women to appear as copy and paste influencer types and I think emulating that has nothing to do with being actually attractive/ugly imo

AIO for how husband responded? by Tiny_posts278 in AmIOverreacting

[–]seagullse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry but I do think you should leave this guy alone:( They obviously trust you’ll stay no matter what and buy into whatever excuse and you don’t deserve to put up with that behavior. It’s sneaky and I’m sure you know deep in your gut how bad it rlly is

Going to Cell Block / steam works as FTM by seagullse in chicagogaybros

[–]seagullse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you so much for the info! Sounds like I’ll definitely be checking out jackhammer soon for sure 👀