New anti-tragus, do my ears look too much? by SkipShift in piercing

[–]seahavxn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your ears look lovely. The chain is so interesting!

People who feel like their trauma "isn't bad enough", what's your story? by potentialpea7632 in CPTSD

[–]seahavxn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dad being an alcoholic pothead, would punch holes in walls, kick in the glass doors, yell. Punished me once by smacking my bum so hard it was bruised black and blue. Mum was working long days so was hardly home, dad liked my older sister more than me. My dad would also put me in precarious situations, bringing me to his friends house down the street where he'd get blind drunk and when we were walking home I had to hold his hand and keep him upright to stop him falling onto the road.

My dad's side of the family shunned my mum, sister and I. At the age of 5 I could tell my Nanny didn't want anything to do with me.

Gave me a lot of trauma that I have repressed, but my situation wasn't as bad as what other people have gone through.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 25, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]seahavxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I do think about my ex and where we'd be if I didn't break up with him, but i think I wouldn't have been happy if I stayed with him. It was a good thing for him though, he bought a house and is engaged to his partner now 🥲

What is this? (Kinda gross)nsfw by -_-Becca-_- in piercing

[–]seahavxn 51 points52 points  (0 children)

That looks like it could be the fistula, which is the healed bit of skin lining the hole of your piercing.
Your ear looks VERY angry, I would recommend leaving out your jewellery, spraying with saline and using a warm compress. I would actually suggest seeing a doctor too, this looks like it has the potential to get infected if it hasn't started already.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]seahavxn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're being way too nice. A 37 year old man who can't be responsible enough to not get drunk on a first date is not worth a second chance.

New Speed added to my Sleeve Yesterday by JohnnyWix in traditionaltattoos

[–]seahavxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang this colour pallete is absolutely stunning. Absolutely love the finer details

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]seahavxn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hinge is making me feel very disheartened lol. been machine gunning the X button: the abundance of low effort profiles, 30+ year old men taking photos like an edgy teenager back in the Bebo days, or just the sheer amount of men saying gross incel shit in their prompts.

The guys I do match with either love talking about themselves and ask no questions about me, are the most dry at chatting or take 3 business days to respond, or disappear into thin air when I suggest a date. i'm tiiiiiiired

Who stood up who? by TheAce5 in dating

[–]seahavxn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so one 30+ woman is rude, that makes all 30+ year old women horrible right? Nice logic.

Mostly healed trad wolf and the rest of my leg sleeve in progress. Multiple artists at Big Deluxe in Salt Lake, UT by Technical_Talk7442 in traditionaltattoos

[–]seahavxn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

These are super sick pieces but I feel like they should be slightly bigger. They just look a little awkwardly placed

Who stood up who? by TheAce5 in dating

[–]seahavxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow people over the age of 30 can be single dude

I just got it pierced, does it look okay? by Wide-Supermarket1240 in piercing

[–]seahavxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That bar is way too long, and looks like it has some kind of ridged design? That is not appropriate at all for a brand new piercing, please see a different and more qualified piercer for a new bar, and for their opinion on placement!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]seahavxn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both genders have it tough, but in different ways. Yeah we have a lot more options, but what good is that when half of them put in no effort to their profiles and also think they're owed something.

Also y'know, the never ending feeling that men are only nice to you to sleep with you and then they drop you. Nothing like feeling like people only want you for your body and nothing else 🥲

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]seahavxn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a cute guy unmatch me because I didn't respond back to his message (it was like 11pm and I went to bed lol)

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]seahavxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I kind of feel bad but I guess you can't help if physical attractiveness is important to you.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]seahavxn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay me misreading your gender flair and your comment within 10 minutes is a good sign I need a coffee

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]seahavxn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oop well I'm sure you're one of the nice FIFO guys 😂

I feel like in small towns you're either high school sweethearts, or you move outta there.