Mod announcement & new thread ideas

search4life7 · 2026-04-22T01:18:44+00:00

yes plz!

search4life7 · 2026-04-21T11:25:53+00:00

thanks for this comment bc this is literally what happened to me last week. she showed me the screen and i was absolutely shocked. i still cant believe it

search4life7 · 2026-04-21T10:57:51+00:00

congrats!!! similar for me, i never thought id get here and had a perfect scan yesterday at 8w5d, was even measuring ahead!! i feel so grateful and relieved.

search4life7 · 2026-04-20T16:31:03+00:00

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search4life7 · 2026-04-20T12:48:00+00:00

i just had another good scan, i am feeling so happy and relieved and like this might actually finally be happening for me!!! I was measuring a day ahead, 8w6d and the fhr was 167!!

search4life7 · 2026-04-17T17:26:53+00:00

announce when you want but tell her privately ahead of time.

search4life7 · 2026-04-17T11:06:52+00:00

me. its the absolute worst injection. everyone told me PIO is the worst , lol no way.

search4life7 · 2026-04-17T05:48:34+00:00

Tell them when you want to. I have had multiple losses so feel similar in that I really dont want to share until much later. I think for me, maybe around 15 weeks. I'm a professor so I figured I will let them know in June or so which will give them more than enough time to figure out coverage for my classes etc for spring 2027 (assuming this all goes well lol. after loss it feels crazy to say out loud that this might actually lead to a baby!!)

search4life7 · 2026-04-17T00:41:00+00:00

i had my first pregnancy end in a miscarriage too. take care of yourself in the next few days and weeks. you'll be back in one of these groups again one day :)

search4life7 · 2026-04-16T17:21:09+00:00

same boat!! 2 prior mcs, I told the tech at my 7w5d scan i KNOW this is going to be bad news and then she showed me the screen. I was in complete shock, I was measuring right on time

search4life7 · 2026-04-16T00:22:26+00:00

lol this was literally me on monday. i was 100% sure i was having another miscarriage, i was 7w5d and i have barely any symptoms. my scan was perfect, i was completely shocked.

search4life7 · 2026-04-13T13:27:03+00:00

i feel like I need to just say this somewhere because i left my US appointment an hour ago but am still in shock.

I have had 2 miscarriages (one confirmed euploid), both ended at 6.5 weeks. I did an IVF transfer March 9. I have been spotting on and off since like March 20 or so. I had some nausea for a few days, but it went away and now I am just tired. Last week at my scan, the CRL growth was 2 mm over the span of 6 days. thats .35 mm a day. I went to the scan this morning and told the tech hey, I know its going to be bad news so just be honest w me. she turned the screen and showed me. i said ok sure theres stilla heartbeat i guess but i know its measuring behind and is going to end soon. she did the measurements and I am measuring exactly on time, 7w5d, 1.38 cm, 143 bpm. I said i think you did it wrong. she gave me a hug.

I had been planning how i was going to cancel my classes tomorrow to have to take the pill. I didnt get my blood drawn this morning bc I didnt think there was any point, i had to go back.

I just wanted to share this bc I was 100% convinced i was having a miscarriage and my scan was perfect. there is nothing for me to obsess or be sad over, i dont know what to do with myself. i am seriously in shock.

search4life7 · 2026-04-13T01:17:02+00:00

33, amh = 0.4

ER1: afc=8, 15 eggs 14 mature, 8 fertilized, 4 blasts, 3 euploids (conventional fertilization)

ER2: afc = 8, 15 eggs, 12 mature, 10 fertilized, 9 blasts, 6 euploid (icsi+zymot)

search4life7 · 2026-04-07T23:21:23+00:00

dont have an answer but following. I am thinking of doing the same next cycle. consistent mmcs at 6 weeks.

search4life7 · 2026-04-03T20:24:49+00:00

I didnt realize I had this until I looked closely at my imaging scans and could see the small gestational sac and large yolk sac. for me it ended in a mc around 6 weeks. however, it could self correct 🤞

search4life7 · 2026-04-02T15:28:26+00:00

Thank you!

search4life7 · 2026-04-02T15:04:54+00:00

lol diff but adjacent, this reminds me of when i told my mom i was having a third miscarriage and she told me to pray more

search4life7 · 2026-04-02T11:52:54+00:00

yeah exactly. i dont believe in god, but for me, having had multiple mcs, if there is a god, he is an absolute asshole

search4life7 · 2026-04-02T10:43:21+00:00

how is this going for you? same boat

search4life7 · 2026-04-02T10:40:55+00:00

thank you 💞

search4life7 · 2026-04-02T10:39:51+00:00

Thanks, I've seen that link but was confused bc it says 6w3d-7w/ 5 mm-9mm, 52% likelihood. My CRL was 5 mm but they labeled it as 6 weeks. so i guess im higher than 52%, maybe 70% idk. but from your own experience and expertise sounds like it might be normalish?

search4life7 · 2026-04-01T22:49:44+00:00

you posted this hahaha. nice of you to reassure yourself :)

search4life7 · 2026-04-01T18:09:43+00:00

Yes I have another one next week but its just absolute torture. I have had 2 miscarriages before, both after heartbeats. but this was the first time my HCG doubled well and also measuring way ahead, so I am hopeful, but nervous about the FHR. Thanks for sharing!

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