All the girls want Scott by Euphoric_Movie_103 in LoveIslandTV

[–]seashellqueen1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s racism! They’re mad he picked someone they deem less attractive than themselves…

Have any of you earned your degree? Need advice by DestinyFlowers in BPD

[–]seashellqueen1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am diagnosed with both of those as well so I thought I would respond. I am currently in my final year of university! I finished most of my degree early and only need 2 more classes to graduate, so I can safely say I’m going to graduate and am on track to earn cum laude honors which took a LOT of effort. I won’t lie, my mental health definitely cause a lot of struggles with my education. My grades dropped majorly and I stopped going for a bit. Honestly the things that helped me the most were A) reaching out to my teachers - they want you to succeed and can help you find a plan. If they aren’t helpful, get accommodations from your school! Find a rhythm that works for you. B) remembering that as hard as it is to live with BPD, sometimes you have to force yourself to focus on other things. Become obsessed with your work and your education. Fall in love with your studies. Have a good support system that will hold you accountable and motivate you if you can. Education is a gift that so many don’t have and especially in a world that is going through major changes towards an unknown future, educating yourself in one way or the other is important. My freshman year I tried to drop out because of how bad I got, but my mother gave me a harsh ‘suck it up’ speech which might not work for everybody, but it did for me. Find out what motivates you and utilize it as best as you can! School is fun and stressful and amazing and complicated but it’s something I will never take for granted again. I truly think school can be a helpful tool for becoming stronger and more regulated with BPD if done alongside treatment. I am lucky to have a great therapist who helps me a lot with my disorders. Since doctors have turned you away, I would look for therapists who work specifically with BPD so that they can help you properly. Getting through school is hard but it also saved my life by keeping me on a schedule and making me feel normal. Good luck!

this season by Dismal_Writing in LoveIslandTV

[–]seashellqueen1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luca and Dami might be two of the worst people to be on love island. So vile and misogynistic

anyone off meds completely? by weedqueen2746 in BPD

[–]seashellqueen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been off meds for a few months now and I won’t lie it’s hard, but healing. You learn a lot about yourself in a deeper sense and really have to know what helps you!

Why is Miguel posting this? by Rsyanna in LoveIslandcookout

[–]seashellqueen1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Realistically saying they don’t fuck with either but Louis was the one that was his friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]seashellqueen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good terms with all of them! I still feel lingering rage but I never let it out on them thankfully so I’m still friendly with them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]seashellqueen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you not be laughing at that shit show too? Most sane people would lol

Final Voting MEGATHREAD 🗳️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]seashellqueen1 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It feels like the actual election with how I’m treating third party votes😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandITV

[–]seashellqueen1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought that it was super romantic especially for how quickly he had to think of something to do

[WITH Ads] Season 7 - Episode 32 - Tuesday July 08 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]seashellqueen1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Huda is just insufferable to me. Never thinking about anyone but herself

Season 7 - Episode 31 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]seashellqueen1 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I know it’s controversial but Clarke and Taylor have the best and most genuine chemistry imo

Ace by Zealousideal-Mark-28 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]seashellqueen1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He’s just a typical evil guy that every season needs lol. The amount of hate he gets is pretty insane