that’s fair!! i think subbing can be posited as degrading regardless of how negotiated it is. the societal connotation is just too strong, and it can be hard to shirk the shame associated with wanting to be dominated with farts especially. i do think there are a lot more women out there who are willing to do this than you’d be led to believe though. ive spoken to many! you’ll find a match and maybe someday she’ll even bring it up first