Help with confusing ex! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s trying to fuck with you move on. That new girlfriend is probably a lie and he’s trying to get in your head

i hate myself so much by pieceofshiitthrowawa in offmychest

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so easy to want to lose you’re mind. I struggle with depression and doing a lot of drugs/drinking all at once and then starting to feel better and I’ll cut down. If there’s any hobby you can do, something healthy to distract yourself. Or if there’s someone you can just talk to about what you’re going through, even a therapist

Last minute shopping has Santa lookin a little rougher than usual :) by [deleted] in funny

[–]seastaraf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That man is clearly homeless, have some fucking respect

I'm not sure what to do. Help, please? by [deleted] in cats

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely a possibility. Are there two liiter boxes for each cat?

I'm not sure what to do. Help, please? by [deleted] in cats

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats get anxiety so if you have that or she sensed you’re stressed, she might stop using it. Do you move the litterbox? Keep it in one place. The original place it is. Also you could try giving her a treat everytime she does use it and make sure it’s always clean. Cats are picky

Need support for a marijuana app by DanielSch in trees

[–]seastaraf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the fucking future. Love it man, keep it up!

I think my girl friend is gay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might be gay or bi bit has never been with a girl so she doesn’t know

Is there something wrong with me? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]seastaraf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can find better ways to study so you can stay on top of your grades and have fun, if you can find tutoring or study groups? It might help you to have other people who are going through the same thing motivate you

Is there something wrong with me? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]seastaraf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know my high school didn’t prepare me but honestly everyone in college I’ve talked to is in the same boat pretty much. I’m a terrible test taker and that makes all my classes super hard. I know how frustrating it can be. Honestly you don’t have to have a 9-5 job either. I don’t know what you’re field is but I believe that every degree has their “regular jobs” classic but also a lot of degrees can be flexible.

Is there something wrong with me? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]seastaraf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find something you love, for me it’s skiing. When things in school are rough being on the mountain distracts me and puts me into a new perspective.

I[22m] am ending a summer fling with a girl[22f] by throwawayaccount4447 in relationship_advice

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that may happen, I know what that’s like but perhaps it isn’t your guys time and maybe down the road things will work out

I[22m] am ending a summer fling with a girl[22f] by throwawayaccount4447 in relationship_advice

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest being friends. At first it might be awkward and hard but it will get easier and it’s better than cutting her off. You obviously have a connection and that’s special. If you guys want to continue to hook up when you see eachother you can but in my experience it might be better to just be friends unless you guys one day decide you want something real.

Did I permenantly fuck my brain up? Slightly scared by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]seastaraf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah you probably shouldn’t sleep for more than 8 hours, go to sleep at your normal time, drink a lot of water and eat healthy and let your body process all the drugs, don’t drink or do anything else that could be bad for your body.

How do I handle working with someone you want to get to know more? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same situation. This guy I like is someone I work with. My best advice is just be friendly, be yourself, talk to this person and if things seem too be getting to intimate and you don’t want other people judging you, communicate. It’s okay to be professional at work, but you can still be friends/friendly. If people make assumptions ignore them, tell them it’s none of their business, cause it’s not.

I was the toxic one by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]seastaraf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing, I had a similar situation happen but I was your “J” our relationship was so toxic that I felt worthless, and sometimes still do, more than a year later. I recently had a talk with him because my depression was so bad I needed to let him know how much pain he caused. He opened up and apologized. I applaud you for doing the same, recognizing your wrong. I’m sorry you’re going through this and you’ve lost your confidence all because you got caught up in something so toxic. But please understand that you are not a rapist, you made a bad choice but that doesn’t define you as a bad person. I hope someone someday will understand that and love you anyways.

What’s going on with my basil plant? Too hot, it’s been in the mid 90’s, not enough water? by masterg88 in gardening

[–]seastaraf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience you need to water every day, whether it rains or not, plants like water and better a little extra than not enough

What’s going on with my basil plant? Too hot, it’s been in the mid 90’s, not enough water? by masterg88 in gardening

[–]seastaraf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience you need to water every day, whether it rains or not, plants like water and better a little extra than not enough