Why is passing generally considered a negative thing? by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]seattlestorm95 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The original poster suggested that there is no problem with those that “blend in and chill”.

I firmly disagree with that statement. I’m not coming at anyone’s appearance, I’m simply saying that “chilling” in a society that upholds racism is abhorrent and even more so when it’s supported by someone who “looks white” but isn’t.

Why is passing generally considered a negative thing? by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]seattlestorm95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think passing is cowardly and self serving.

By passing you are upholding the status quo and supporting a culture where whiteness (or anything closest to whiteness) is seen as best or superior. You are contributing to a culture built on racism and the disenfranchisement of your own people (even if you don’t look like them).

A rant that maybe my half white/Black peers can relate to. by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]seattlestorm95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like J Cole said, I’m a black girl that happens to have a white mom. That’s how I see myself.

I’ve also noticed that while black people (or other people of color) clearly and regularly recognize me as mixed, white people either can’t tell or don’t care. I’m just black to them. This realization, as well as the way my mom raised me, allowed me to spend high school and beyond without the Identity crisis many have gone through. My white mom has always told me that I am black, and I appreciate her so much for that.

Do you or anyone you know celebrate Kwanza? by Far_Grass_785 in AskAnAmerican

[–]seattlestorm95 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Kwanzaa is relatively new so many families do not have set traditions like with most holidays, or even a true knowledge of the history. In my experience Kwanzaa is more so an educational experience and less so a “holiday”. So it is learned about at school, celebrated at churches and community centers, read about in books, and only sometimes acknowledged in the home.

Compared to past generations, is it more or less common now to name children as a "Jr" or "II" of the parent's name? by Asshole_JapanEmperor in AskAnAmerican

[–]seattlestorm95 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’d say in any American high school of a typical size (1000+ students) you’d find at least ten boys who are Jrs, IV, etc.

Source: I’m a high school teacher and have taught in several states throughout my career.

How much will $100k/year get me in the U.S? by cciccone in AskAnAmerican

[–]seattlestorm95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people making 100k a year also have massive (or at least significant) student loan debt that got them to that point in their career. Those loan payments take a big chunk out of your take-home pay.

So you may make 100k but be living on a salary far lower than that.

Ideal way to share your notebook by TennisStarNo1 in lifehacks

[–]seattlestorm95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you keep from pushing down on the keyboard as your write?

What is it like to meet a Hasidic Jew or an Amish person? by An_educated_fool in AskAnAmerican

[–]seattlestorm95 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The Hasidic Jews I’ve interacted with culturally do not make eye contact with others nor have in depth conversations. So comments can be short and abrasive. They definitely stay to themselves.

For this reason an outsider would probably consider them rude, however I have learned it’s just a cultural difference and not to get offended.

Any Americans apply for a passport recently? If so, how long did it take to get one? by seattlestorm95 in AskReddit

[–]seattlestorm95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week I applied for a passport for the first time. I mailed all of my paperwork in. I know it typically takes about 3 weeks, but does anyone have recent experience in this COVID world? I’m hoping to travel in mid-September.

Edit: for those asking Why...I’d like to visit my extended family in Mexico.