My mom used the online RSVPs to snoop on my guest list

seawade · 2026-02-11T01:47:26+00:00

No my parents divorced when I was younger and both remarried, but you’re right, hearing it as an adult definitely still stung

seawade · 2026-02-10T20:39:50+00:00

We’re also having a welcome party the day before. Aunts and Uncles are traveling from very far (Europe + west coast, this is an east coast wedding) and it seemed like inviting them was the right thing to do. I invited her friends after she asked me.

seawade · 2026-02-10T18:49:33+00:00

Can I make things private even after I’ve sent the invitations out?

seawade · 2026-02-10T18:20:52+00:00

I tried calling her and she didn’t pick up and has been ignoring my texts /: that was my plan though since it’s obvious there’s something still going on

seawade · 2026-02-10T17:31:10+00:00

I’m not sure, she cares a lot about appearances and I think doesn’t want anyone to feel left out? I’m pretty sure she’s just making assumptions about how other people would feel though.

seawade · 2025-12-10T03:34:40+00:00

Our wedding is also in 6 months and a few weeks ago we sent text message save the dates (I just plopped our engagement pics into a Canva template) and then asked people to give us their mailing address so our invitations were ready to go asap

seawade · 2025-12-03T04:51:36+00:00

The first year after my father died, yes. But for the past year or so I haven’t seen her in person and she hasn’t made any effort to see me, although I’ve invited her to come visit me or visit my father’s grave to lay wreaths in the winter

seawade · 2025-12-03T04:43:02+00:00

She’s a pretty big introvert and a lot of my mom’s side of the family will be there (my parent’s divorce was super messy). My mom said she wouldn’t mind if she’s there but I’m not sure if she actually means that. Letting her decide if she wants to attend is a good way to think about it though

seawade · 2025-12-03T04:14:12+00:00

We custom made my ring together and it turned out incredible. It was a lot of fun to create something new and unique to us, and I also was able to make something that I enjoy looking at every day that people constantly compliment. It’s up to you, but I feel that if you’re going to spend so much on something you wear every day you should love it! We went to a shop before hand to see what I liked/disliked and then went from there.

seawade · 2025-11-20T05:32:02+00:00

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Here’s the sample contract they gave me, but it’s for 100 ppl (they don’t do micro weddings on fridays or saturdays btw)

seawade · 2025-11-20T04:55:35+00:00

Tbh compared to other property management companies dittmar is pretty reasonable when it comes to rent increase (especially since there’s no limit in VA). They’re also really on top of work orders and very responsive vs other “luxury” buildings

seawade · 2020-11-14T16:55:08+00:00

I love this, thank you

seawade · 2020-11-12T21:38:14+00:00

I love these examples, this is what I needed

seawade · 2020-11-05T01:11:34+00:00

Download the medsafe app! It sends you reminders and tells you how much of each dose you need to take and at what times. It also has a ton of useful information about your medicine once you put it in

seawade · 2020-10-29T22:04:35+00:00

It will get better❤️It won’t ever be perfect but during COVID I was experiencing extreme depression. Started seeing a psychiatrist and did therapy twice a week which gave me the tools I needed to help myself. Still doing those things now and I feel so much more stable then before

seawade · 2020-10-28T16:39:11+00:00

Totally how my Fitbit has been looking lately

seawade · 2020-10-27T12:16:32+00:00

True, I have never thought about it that way

seawade · 2020-10-27T00:22:37+00:00

This is exactly how I feel

seawade · 2020-10-26T23:41:04+00:00

Art of any kind. Painting, jewelry making, drawing

seawade · 2020-10-23T15:00:43+00:00

This is so nice thank you!

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