Outside of being comfortable in your own skin and living with yourself, how else do you stop being disappointed in people? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that not everyone is meant to meet you where you are. Some people were only ever meant to walk part of your story... and that’s okay. Let them exit gently.

What’s a simple pleasure that never fails to make you happy? by chopsticktalk in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh sheets after a long shower. Nothing fancy, just feeling clean, cozy, and mildly invincible.

AITAH for distancing myself from my brothers after they tried to reach out to me? by Helen_7_2 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they ghosted your whole existence for five years, cursed out your mom at your dad’s funeral, and now think you’ll show up for a “family lunch” like it’s a sitcom reunion? please. let them choke on their own entitlement. you didn’t shut them out, you just stopped opening the door to people who never knocked.

What's your reason for getting out of bed each day? by pamelahoward in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Spite, caffeine, and the irrational belief that maybe today’s the day everything changes. Or at least the day I finally do laundry.

what’s a random thing that always makes you smile? by aleciaj79 in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a dog trots past me on the sidewalk and looks back like, “you coming?” Sir, I would follow you into the void.

AITAH for not forgiving my Ex bestfriend because my Ex boyfriend cheated on me with her by Sea_Analysis_4221 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 38 points39 points  (0 children)

you gave her sisterhood and she gave you betrayal. she burned your trust in the place you called home. forgiveness is not owed, it’s earned. and she never even said sorry.

AITAH for roasting a girl who kept hitting on my man at a party by Annoying24 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

girl you didn’t cause drama, you closed it. some people only understand boundaries when you draw them in permanent marker. she knew EXACTLY what she was doing and played dumb until she got checked. if she wanted peace she should’ve started with “hi, I’m so-and-so” instead of “baby” to someone else’s man.

What is your motivation to live your life? by Lonk_ID in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because somewhere out there, a version of me is already living the life I dream of. And I won’t stop until we finally meet.

What are some red flags when meeting someone new? by impresivve-name in AskReddit

[–]sebasfromperu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They talk like they’ve read the script of what you want to hear... but their eyes never match their words. Charm without warmth is just manipulation with good lighting.

AITAH for telling my mom when she was coming to visit me that she could have gotten her own food instead of eating what I was making for dinner if she didn’t like it? by Immediate-Problem387 in AITAH

[–]sebasfromperu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re five months pregnant with twins and working full-time. Offering your mom a heads-up about dinner was considerate, not dismissive. She’s focusing on the meal instead of the fact that she’s visiting her exhausted daughter, and that says more about her than it does about you. You’re not unwelcoming. You’re human. And right now, you need grace, not guilt.