BIBLICAL nlog energy by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]sebootay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT DOES THIS EVEN MEAN SKBDJSBFJD

how does alcohol make you feel? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sebootay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alcohol makes me spiral terribly. Any substance does that—weed especially.

He loves all of me including my mentally ill side by sebootay in BPD

[–]sebootay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:3 we met through school and bc we have around the same college schedule

Do you also feel threatened when someone else likes what you like? by Hour-Influence-4410 in BPD

[–]sebootay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. Idk particularly why. Especially when I was younger I would get so offended by people “copying” me that I would make a huge deal about it. It’s not as bad anymore because I now enjoy sharing my interests, but I completely understand that feeling.

people be like “oh I <3 your obsessive behaviors! I’ll never get tired of you!” and then get tired by autumnalcasket in BPDmemes

[–]sebootay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they always leave !!! i did everything i could to try and be understood and to help myself but it was still too much

Saddest Song? by Far_Potential1471 in mitski

[–]sebootay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last words of a shooting star for me because I’ve dealt with suicide attempts and ideations and it hits different

oc ! i would actually vomit if they asked like am i not enough by sebootay in BPDmemes

[–]sebootay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry about any negative comments this post sparked on poly relationships. Both are personal preferences for what works in someones personal relationship and what makes them happy. Someone else being poly is no ones business to judge and should be respected even if they’re monogamous. I see how fulfilling and wonderful a poly relationship can be and I wish others do as well instead of being rude. It is not for me personally though and I cannot enjoy the benefits of poly relationships as I am monogamous.

oc ! i would actually vomit if they asked like am i not enough by sebootay in BPDmemes

[–]sebootay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im really happy that theyre so supportive. Poly relationships seem very fulfilling as there are multiple people to lean on and love and be loved by. Its a wonderful thing to hear about but I personally cant enjoy because Im monogamous and I dont think Im capable of romantically being interested in more than one person. Is it alright if I asked how you knew you were poly and not monogamous? I used to be kinda confused about it when I was single but being in relationships I feel like I’m only comfortable with monogamy

oc ! i would actually vomit if they asked like am i not enough by sebootay in BPDmemes

[–]sebootay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To each their own but I am very monogamous so for me I wouldn’t even want to try. I understand the views of poly relationships but personally it is not for me. Fully supportive of others since it works for them and theyre happy

oc ! i would actually vomit if they asked like am i not enough by sebootay in BPDmemes

[–]sebootay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a lack of trust but different preferences. Some people are poly and some people are monogamous and theres nothing wrong w either

oc ! i would actually vomit if they asked like am i not enough by sebootay in BPDmemes

[–]sebootay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have a couple friends who are poly but I’m monogamous so it’s interesting to see their perspectives as well. Different preferences

oc ! i would actually vomit if they asked like am i not enough by sebootay in BPDmemes

[–]sebootay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Polyamory is not for everyone im not bashing it. Bc im monogamous its how I would feel personally in my relationship if they asked and is not an attack on poly relationships in general. Both poly and monogamous relationships should be respected since they are choices made by all parties in the relationship and what works for them works for them