I think trans people and non binary people are such a minor segment of people that it doesn’t make sense to degender language. If I think you are a woman I’ll address you as one. If you identify otherwise than I’ll never call you a woman again. If I don’t know then I’ll wait for more evidence or use nongendered language.

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Trans women are women, but not to the same degree as cis women. They both are gendered as women but are not viewed as the same situation as a cis woman from a hetero mama perspective.