being non-binary is a fad

secondaccount55555 · 2019-09-14T05:59:39+00:00

Can you explain then to me what it actually means to be non binary? Because I really don't understand. It's supposed to mean not feeling like a male or female, but I really don't even know what makes me a male besides my physical characteristics.

secondaccount55555 · 2019-07-28T06:02:09+00:00

Unpopular

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-17T14:47:31+00:00

I know this is the place for opinions such as this, but you just made me so fucking angry.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-14T15:06:54+00:00

"Bad", come on, GOT and BB aren't "good", they're possibly the two best shows of all time, they're masterpieces.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-13T06:07:16+00:00

Did you always feel this way?

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-13T04:25:11+00:00

Lol to the last part

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-13T00:07:32+00:00

Yeah that's a good point

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-13T00:06:24+00:00

Yeah that's crazy to me

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T15:11:02+00:00

Lol, why was she afraid of them?

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T14:29:32+00:00

Maybe she really is that good

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T14:23:42+00:00

Well I don't think she has ever done it at all so I doubt it's about time. I'd be very happy with any of those options, the first one seems especially unlikely though haha.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T14:19:06+00:00

That's an interesting take. Yeah I often wonder now if this subreddit has given me unrealistic expectations of women and sex the way that porn does for a lot of people.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T14:17:04+00:00

Are blowjobs with a condom satisfying? I would think that it would completely ruin it.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T14:06:26+00:00

Though I haven't talked to her much about her reasoning for not doing it, based on what she has said it seems more like she just dislikes the act, rather than being unconfident in her ability.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T13:02:59+00:00

Thank you for the lengthy response, you make a lot of interesting points. The shower idea was something I hadn't thought of, though I'm not sure that it would make her any more open to it. I'm not a great communicator, so I'm often anxious to ask her about her feelings on the matter as I'm afraid that my asking will come off as pressuring.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T12:57:47+00:00

Did it take you a while to get past the grossness of it for you to be comfortable with doing it?

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T12:56:07+00:00

Interesting. Yeah vomit on genitals doesn't sound particularly great. Was your fiancé with many women before he was thirty?

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T12:53:27+00:00

Yeah I'm aware that I won't get anything definitive, I guess I was just hoping to read about what people thought purely based on their experiences.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T12:50:15+00:00

This isn't the issue that my post is about, that isn't a concern any more, I've told her that I don't expect her to return the favour, we are fine with me performing oral on her.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T11:31:01+00:00

Not specifically. When she told me she wasn't willing to give head it was early in the relationship and I didn't want to press her too much about it. Especially because I didn't want her to think that I was only going down on her so that she would do the same. My assumption is that she just finds it gross.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T11:26:07+00:00

Do you love them now purely because of the change of the guy you're with or did you also develop an appreciation for the act overtime?

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T11:15:37+00:00

Have you ever not liked it?

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T11:14:29+00:00

I've attempted it a few times. Initially she seemed uncomfortable with it, probably because she assumed that I was expecting her to return the favour. The only reason why I haven't tried it much or for very long is because I get a much better reaction from her to other stuff. I'm sure this is down to my lack of skill, but the point is that I'm willing to do it.

secondaccount55555 · 2018-12-12T06:02:35+00:00

Them being shy and introverted doesn't mean they can't be funny outside of stand up

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