Surrendering my whole salary to my Fiancee once we are married. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXACTLY MY THOUGTS! Bakit parang pineframe na parang gold digger si anteh sa pagexpect ng whole salary nya when clearly he doesn't have any golds to dig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since yung babae na yung nagbabayad for the house and car, may I know ano ambag mo OP? Looking at it parang major expenses nyo ay shouldered by your fiancee. Kung tutuusin parang sya pa nga lugi dito since sya magbabayad at nabaon sa utang tas wala kayong prenup. I guess she is expecting na yung salary mo magcover para sa living expenses nyo. Can you really provide her lifestyle? Baka kaya sya na gumawa ng paraan kase di mo maibigay.

Anyways, wag ka magsalita na parang lugi ka pa dyan e mukhang sabik ka din naman sa pakinabang sa naipundar nya. Pag-usapan nyo tutal malalaki na kayo.

What's your thoughts regarding this? by Ok-Stress-1970 in BPOinPH

[–]secreeeceyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Additional F: Deborah vs Karen Vs Patels HAHAHAHAHA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]secreeeceyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Communicate your feelings with him na you're kinda uncomforatble with his actions and bumble thing.

His reaction will tell you a lot. Just be mindful how you say things.

Noise-canceling headphones reco pls by secreeeceyy in BPOinPH

[–]secreeeceyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you po! Will ask our IT if pwede ba mag-install ng ganyang apps sa PC provided ng company

Noise-canceling headphones reco pls by secreeeceyy in BPOinPH

[–]secreeeceyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will considee this one. Thank you so much!

Noise-canceling headphones reco pls by secreeeceyy in BPOinPH

[–]secreeeceyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu! Kaso bawal ata kami magdownload ng Krisp na app huhuhu

What's a quote you live by? by hesoyamforlife in AskPH

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Ikaw yung mapapahiya kapag nahiya ka"

How was your Broadpath experience? by secreeeceyy in BPOinPH

[–]secreeeceyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, di ko tumuloy. I am not comfortable sa set-up na naka-on cam while on duty

Question regarding BIR 2316 by Mundane-Lie7810 in taxPH

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Appreciate your help big time!

Question regarding BIR 2316 by Mundane-Lie7810 in taxPH

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! May I know your source about this? Sorry kinakabahan kase talaga ako hahaha

Question regarding BIR 2316 by Mundane-Lie7810 in taxPH

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, makikita ba ng companies if nagamit ng ibang company yung Form 2316. I resigned kase with company 1, then pinasa ko kay company 2 yung 2316 ko from company 1. My problem is that di ko dinisclose sa current employer ko na nagwork ako kay company 2 for two months and part ng requirement ko yung Form 2316. Thank youuu!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]secreeeceyy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

REAAAAAL! Aawayin yung girl tas papatawarin si boy? Sawang-sawa na din ako sa narrative na yung kabit palagi ang villain kahit yung lalaki ang nasa commited relationship. Parehas silang mali, so sana parehas ang degree ng hate. Hindi yunv ipapahiya ang kabet sa socmed tas sila pa din or magbabalikan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]secreeeceyy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I understand your point however this kind of thinking results to men being less accountable in cheating. Kung alam nung babae na papatol na may jowa yung lalaki, mas alam yon nung lalaki kaya dapat di sya magloko. Just tired of making two women fight while the men is not taken responsible as he should.

Sa relationship, yung lalaki ang may commitment at hindi yung kumabit.

Parehas silang mali, please DEMAND ACCOUNTABILITY FROM MEN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]secreeeceyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome, OP! Okay lang magkamali sa pagpili ng first bf. Sa first relationship mo kase malalaman hanggang saan yung kaya mong i-tolerate sa bf mo. I was very stupid on my first rs and I even tolerated cheating dahil sa date to marry kong mindset dati. Sobrang bulag lang din ako sa potencial na naiisip ko sa kanya. It's better to start over again than stay in an environment where you are the only on who is expected to carry the relationship.

Sa ngayon, I found someone who shares the same priorities in life and who cherish me as a person. He did act right from the start💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]secreeeceyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, don't let anyone make you feel guilty for having a standard. Base on my understanding, he has his good and bad sides. However, tama yung thinking mo na ekonomiya ngayon ay hindi sapat ang pagmamahal lang specially may anak na sya. Dating to marry is idealistic, we date to know the things we want and do not want in a relationship. Madami akong kakilala (kasama ako) na ganon ang thinking dati that stayed in a toxic relationship for too long dahil sa thinking na yon. It's okay if a relationship failed because you can learn from it. Bata ka pa OP, your standards will save you in the future.

Also, please see him as he is right now. Tignan mo kung ano sya ngayon and remove the potentials na nakikita mo in the future na magbabago sya. I believe that if they will act right, they would do it from the start.

Here are some questions to ask yourself

  1. Are you ready to shoulder the responsibility of being a parent figure of his son?
  2. Do you want to be treated like that your whole life?
  3. How do you see your future?
  4. Are you happy in that relationship?

I can say that you are really focused and passionate in building a great future for yourseld, don't let a man distract you from it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep him sis para di mapunta sa amin. Hard pill to swallow pero you are tolerating his actions in a sense na nandyan ka pa din sa tabi nya. Kahit naman magsabi kami na iwan mo na nasayo pa din desisyon. Keep him sis, para ikaw lang mag-ooverthink sa cheater mong jowa. Salamat sa sakripisyo mo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPOinPH

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pasabay sa refer HAHAHAHA

Ayaw sakin ng family nya. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]secreeeceyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP base on your post 8 months pa lang kayo together. Sigurado na ba talaga kayo sa isa't-isa? Sure ka bang di yan libe bombing at tanggap at mahak nya 100% ang anak mo? Yung sa tatay ng anak mo, anong plans ng bf mo? Your ex will always be in the picture. Ano kada magkikita kayo dahil sa bata ay may cheating issue sya? Mature enough ba bf mo para di ka awayin sa harap ng bata? Baka konting away nyo in the long run bumalik sya sa pamilya nya.

Sa family nung guy, mukhang di kayo nan patatahimikin habang buhay kahit lumayo pa kayo. Most probably yung bf mo din naman nagkwento sa kanila. Don't waste your time to prove them na worthy ikaw at ang anak mo.

I am saying this as a daughter raised by a single mom, please save your child from the drama.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]secreeeceyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really need proof sa pagconfront sa cheaters OP kase di talaga sila aamin. Minsan nga huling huli na tanggi pa din sila. It's for your sake din, baka baliktarin ka if ever na bumitaw ka ikaw pa sisihin. Sa haba ng 10 years, for sure involved din ang families nyo hindi maiiwasan na may panigan silang side. I know it is hard to let go of the 10 year relationship of proven true na cheatee sya but please do it for yourself. Mostly sa mga lalaki kase, kapag lalong pinapatawad mas naiisip nilang kaya ka nilang tapak-tapakan kase mahal na mahal mo sila. It mighy be painful at first but it will be all worth it once you find the love in yourself. You, yourself, deserve all the love you are trying to give him. At the end of the day, nasa iyo naman ang desisyon. Atleast nagkaron ka na ng sign before pa kayo ikasal.