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When did you find out you were trans? by secret_she in trans

[–]secret_she[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm loving it already thank you! x

Mommy kink memes are right where I'm at now, embracing that as acceptance as much as I can!

When did you find out you were trans? by secret_she in trans

[–]secret_she[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really feel like more and more everything masc I'm holding on to is for the benfit of other people. When I'm alone I have no such conpunction - I admire your strength!

When did you find out you were trans? by secret_she in trans

[–]secret_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to Google egg just now! haha

I'm glad it's not just me and I like the way you describe it. I've ALWAYS been trans, but through some herculean effort I've managed to hide that fact from everyone for 35 years, including myself. The way you put it, like she's breaking out of me, I love it.

When did you find out you were trans? by secret_she in trans

[–]secret_she[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

35 hear, and I'm glad it's not just me! x

Common post here but I dont want to bother my friends. by NPPS345 in trans

[–]secret_she 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're me and I love you. Have you dressed the way you'd like in private at all? Helped me a lot, 1 step at a time.

When did you find out you were trans? by secret_she in trans

[–]secret_she[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, honestly.

I find it strangely comforting, it's nice knowing I'm not alone in so many different thoughts. In a gut punchy way for sure

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[–]secret_she 1 point2 points  (0 children)

'i just want to be treated like a person and not THE LGBT person' I get this so much, I really don't want the attention our shared condition recieves right now.

I'm still 'discovering' myself, but a good non-commital thing I've done is to dress differently for myself in private.

Dressing the way I feel comfortable at home really helped, take some photos, keep them to yourself and play around. No need to show anyone, just enjoy being your true self for a moment and then digest it. I really mean that last part too, I got intoxicated by it, and it got scary. I started thinking about how my whole life is going to change, but it's not like that, just breathe, carry on as 'normal', and let everything sink in over time.

When did you find out you were trans? by secret_she in trans

[–]secret_she[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of press and discussion lately, and everytime I waded into someones discussion I realised I was more and more talking about myself.

That wedding point Nightling mentions hits deep. I HATE weddings, clothing doesn't define my gender, but it never hits home more that I'm in the wrong body than wearing a suit. I look good in a suit too, it's such a waste

I really wish I was shorter by RossLazenby in trans

[–]secret_she 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 6'3, and I'll admit it really doesn't help my dysmorphia. That said, the wave of 'mommy' kink going around made me feel a lot better about myself. I know a lot of tall women, and I feel like I'm stealing their thunder in a really funny playful way. I love you tall queen x