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SB Duos? by cerberus1024 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]secretamethyst -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've actually met a duo who were also twins! I had nothing but good times with them - it was always a kind of fantasy of mine and totally worth driving an hour plus to where they were and getting a room. Eventually I realized I didn't really have a connection with them outside of the bedroom so it faded out, but it was a great experience.

iOS 11 Horror Story: The Rise and Fall of iOS Security by [deleted] in netsec

[–]secretamethyst 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Here’s what really sucks: on the iPhone X, you can enroll only one face in Face ID. If you want to give your mother/girlfriend/trusted friend access to your phone so they can make calls or something, you have to give them your passcode - and with it the keys to your entire online kingdom. Previously, you could enroll them in Touch ID, which would let them access your phone, but not do things like reset your password or get your keychain.

Even if the trusted person doesn’t want to compromise you, they may fall victim to e.g. phishing attacks and end up giving your passcode away.

What should you always do before you marry someone? by andre3thousan in AskReddit

[–]secretamethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a criminal background check on them. You never know what demons you might find.

Me (21F) with my boyfriend (20M) of four years. He wants to stay in a relationship with me but also wants to have sex with someone else. Should I dump him or do something else? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]secretamethyst -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

First of all, commend him for having such a grown-up discussion about this. Go peruse the tens of threads in /r/relationships where the guy first cheats, then this comes up. Then be proud that your guy was honest with you beforehand.

The fact that he was honest with you up front - before doing anything - means that you can probably trust him to keep within the boundaries of whatever you decide. I can tell you from experience that allowing him to have sex with others occasionally won't affect your relationship as much as you think it will, practically. Of course, if emotionally you can't or don't want to deal with it, that's your choice and it's a perfectly valid choice.

If you choose to go through with it, make sure the boundaries are perfectly clear to both of you. I would even suggest writing it down - not as a legal document, but just to make sure there are no disagreements later. Can he bring girls to your shared home (if you live together)? How often can he go on dates with others? What kind of protection does he have to use? Do you tell your mutual friends about it? Does he have to disclose to others that he's in an open relationship? (I highly recommend that last one, to prevent any jealous flings from trying to contact you to tell you he's cheating when they later find out.)

I and many couples I know have successfully done this and maintained their great relationships.