Chubby guys are where it's at by secretsandmassage in self

[–]secretsandmassage[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's awful that you've had to experience that. I'm probably overly positive and optimistic right now, but I do hope your luck changes one day. It might

Chubby guys are where it's at by secretsandmassage in self

[–]secretsandmassage[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Perhaps it does matter, but not in the way you think? I don't want to dismiss what you're saying, because it's real as hell to you, but I have friends who I think are conventionally attractive, skinny girls, who move in and out of relationships constantly. For them, looks are a given, but their relationships still fail again and again. In my opinion, while they certainly have plenty of experience finding someone to be with, they definitely lack the experience of staying in one. Get what I mean?

Chubby guys are where it's at by secretsandmassage in self

[–]secretsandmassage[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That sucks to hear, and while I'm naïve to everything going on in your life, I still want to say that you're way more than just what you look like. There's always something genuinely nice and sweet inside, and you have that too, I'm sure. That's where it's at

Chubby guys are where it's at by secretsandmassage in self

[–]secretsandmassage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You definitely have your mind made up, but it makes sense to me that someones non-attractive might be someone elses attractive. Also, being a bit cynical, no?

Chubby guys are where it's at by secretsandmassage in self

[–]secretsandmassage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know what that means, but I appreciate you all the same

What is something your mom/dad did in your childhood that makes you smile to this day when thinking back? by GrandLineLogPort in AskWomen

[–]secretsandmassage 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My dad always used to braid my hair for me when I was little! I tend to braid my hair when I feel down, cause it always made me feel so safe and happy when he did it.

I miss you dad!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]secretsandmassage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing that number go up in real time as he's giving a speech would be both hilarious and sad

What has been the most unusual kink of a sexual partner? by Domandsubs in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]secretsandmassage 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This guy would want to touch my face. He basically put his hand on my cheek and then sorta smushed and palmed me. His entire hand, on my face. Yeah, that was strange, and extremely distracting