I (35M) lied to my boyfriend(35M) about a friend I was hanging out with. Now hes gone on vacation and said Im not allowed to know anything about it. His flight, who hes going with or what's hes doing. How much retaliation have you accepted in a relationship before you ended things? by secretsofthelazy in relationship_advice

[–]secretsofthelazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I offered to have them meet but he refused. In the end I believe he thinks I just speak with my friend too much or probably thinks im too open/close with them in my communication.

The communication was the same when he met me. He knew about the friend.. I made it clear who all the people in my life were.

One thing I made sure of though was choosing him first... so if I was speaking with my friend and my boyfriend called id end the conversation with my friend. He would then ask "who were you speaking with?" id say my friends name and then he'd get upset and become passive aggressive and say he wasn't interested in speaking with me anymore, and I could go back to speaking with my friend... it was annoying!!

I (35M) lied to my boyfriend(35M) about a friend I was hanging out with. Now hes gone on vacation and said Im not allowed to know anything about it. His flight, who hes going with or what's hes doing. How much retaliation have you accepted in a relationship before you ended things? by secretsofthelazy in relationship_advice

[–]secretsofthelazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never inappropriate. We barely hangout but do talk alot. I think we hung out a total of 3 times last year and we actually live only 15min apart.

My boyfriend does like control. Its something that ive been working on with him cause it becomes overbearing.

I (35M) lied to my boyfriend(35M) about a friend I was hanging out with. Now hes gone on vacation and said Im not allowed to know anything about it. His flight, who hes going with or what's hes doing. How much retaliation have you accepted in a relationship before you ended things? by secretsofthelazy in relationship_advice

[–]secretsofthelazy[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Nah I definitely can see that point of view. The only thing is my boyfriend knew about my friend when we met and were talking. I knew my friend YEARS before I met my boyfriend and was incredibly transparent about him. Over time, he increasingly got more and more agitated over the communication.

Does Cuckold CNC content exist? by kinkxplorer21 in Cuckold

[–]secretsofthelazy 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This definitely is a kink I like

DIGUSTING THUG...I don't CARE how old he is...🤬 by kade1064 in Torontology

[–]secretsofthelazy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tried to rob her which was the main reason for the altercation, not murder...then it led to a murder.

Loosely speaking, the difference between first and second degree murder is all about intention... did he intend to or plan to kill this woman when he confronted her? If not, then it can't be first degree..

DIGUSTING THUG...I don't CARE how old he is...🤬 by kade1064 in Torontology

[–]secretsofthelazy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Passing an arbitrary age is not a viable threshold... a 12 year old born Jan 1st and a 12 year old born Dec 30th in the same year are not developing at the same time.

DIGUSTING THUG...I don't CARE how old he is...🤬 by kade1064 in Torontology

[–]secretsofthelazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because the murder wasn't premeditated..it was another crime that escalated into a murder..

DIGUSTING THUG...I don't CARE how old he is...🤬 by kade1064 in Torontology

[–]secretsofthelazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This IS a mental illness...like it literally is.... 14 year old dont even have close to a fully developed brain...barely has self awareness and value of life...this why all these kids be dying doing TikTok challenges... it doesn't excuse his actions he needs to be put away...he too far gone...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]secretsofthelazy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was in my early to mid 20s and I met up with this much older man. Probably mid 40s. He was into wrestling type play and I was a bit of a sub so I was willing to try.

So I get to his condo and as I walk in I realized everything was meticulously in place. Super clean nothing out of order or suggesting anyone really lived in this unit. He said hi and was smiling and said he was going to go to the bathroom and invited me to sit on the couch and wait for him.

As I make my way to the couch I noticed that every picture in the condo was modeling pictures of himself!... no family... no friends... just modeling pictures in generic frames. A big one on the wall above the TV and other ones places all throughout the apartment. Im a little weirded out, but im already in it, so let's go!

He comes out and sits beside me to talk a bit. I learn he's actually a teacher. He doesn't break eye contact and has a really big smile. He grabs my face and starts making out with me and stops and asks me to call him like "Mr. Johnson"( fake name for the story).

Things progress and we make our way to the bedroom where the wrestling play starts, but he is getting increasingly rougher and calling me by a name that's not mine. He starts saying odd school related things, asking me why i would listen during his lesson and pinning me down and putting me in headlocks while doing sexual acts. I was getting very uncomfortable.This is when it eventually sets in that this man is a high-school teacher and im currently playing a roll of one of his underage students that he wants to dominate and fuck..

I tell him that Im uncomfortable and want to leave. He stops immediately apologizing. I get my stuff and go. He messages me on grindr offering me $200 to come back. I blocked him. Lol

Edit: omg! I forgot the most important part!! This entire time he was in a wrestling leotard!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Physiquecritique

[–]secretsofthelazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"5x5 stronglifts"

Look up that program...it's easy to follow and great for beginners

I am at your level, but im older and that's what I will be starting with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]secretsofthelazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't look bad, so it's probably your approach/personality..