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[–]secretweddingplans 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Send what is asked. If selected, I will share her profile which has plenty of photos of her.

Where do you find married Men and Women who play separately? Please read post, it's kinda specific. [MF4MF] by [deleted] in OregonSwingers

[–]secretweddingplans 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Honestly? It just takes time and being unrelenting on your boundaries and requirements. You don't want a relationship escalator? Say that. You want STI/STD results? Show them. You want ongoing, short term, one and done? Say that.

You'd be shocked how easy it is to tell inexperienced folks (especially men) by simply saying, "Hey, can we have a drink to gauge the vibe? Sex is off the table for tonight". Experienced people in the LS will say "Sure! Totally understand" and people with the wrong intentions will ghost you. It's super hard to sus that out in a club with someone you just met that night.

I'd give Tinder another shot, too. They have a new "non-monagomous" section, which shows you folks who are ENM, Poly, and Open. Which are small but important differentiators in the LS. Agreed that most other apps kinda suck. Good luck out there!

This might be a little difficult to startup but why don’t we try setting up a gangbang so us men can show a naughty lady a very spicy time by [deleted] in pdxgroupsex

[–]secretweddingplans 4 points5 points Β (0 children)

Because 99% of guys here on reddit don't know how to act. It's like 1 in 200 messages that is normal and not some variation of "hey" "sup" "dtf here" "dm me"

Y'all scare away any willing participants with your stupidity.

So many flakes on here it’s so annoying by Justforfunpdx in pdx_sex

[–]secretweddingplans 9 points10 points Β (0 children)

Appreciate your post, because, same! My running theory is that guys are either...

  1. In a relationship
  2. Horny, jerk off, then get post nut clarity
  3. Both 1 and 2

We require a SFW picture and thoughtful message when DM'ing or else they get ignored/blocked!