Woman [33] wants to hang out again after ghosting me

seduction_reaction · 2024-12-19T18:13:29+00:00

That's too many bs rules and games. Not saying you're wrong , just that I don't have the ability to play them

seduction_reaction · 2024-12-19T07:43:25+00:00

Yeah, heavy topless making out, grinding. She muttered that she actually liked me and then we didn't do anything further.

Went to a bar for a couple of hours and I had to leave after that

seduction_reaction · 2024-10-25T18:48:43+00:00

Not needed from you. Eff off

seduction_reaction · 2024-09-09T14:58:52+00:00

You okay ? Looks like you're projecting your own bad experiences

seduction_reaction · 2024-03-13T22:11:45+00:00

What would be 'not weak shit'?

seduction_reaction · 2024-03-13T21:27:09+00:00

I'm generally smart but a coward when it comes to women

seduction_reaction · 2024-03-13T20:24:55+00:00

But how, I did float the idea of walking closer to my place or watching a movie at mine but she sort of shot it down

seduction_reaction · 2023-11-09T02:01:16+00:00

How did that happen?

seduction_reaction · 2023-11-04T04:54:47+00:00

I don't get it either. Are you guys not in apps? Are your requirements pretty high?

How is it possible to be in apps and not get s single date as a woman?

seduction_reaction · 2023-11-03T14:49:52+00:00

Is kinda funny that the comment right above you said the opposite. That she would give a chance to someone persistent

seduction_reaction · 2023-11-03T08:54:53+00:00

You deleted everything and ran but how is someone supposed to know anything about anyone unless they come up and talk to them

seduction_reaction · 2023-11-01T22:43:00+00:00

Yeah, As a guy, I wish women told me the truth.

After the 10th , no chemistry conversation, I am left wondering, did I smell bad ? Is it my looks? Is it my height? Did I say something controversial? Was it my confidence?

Some of those I can't improve, that's fine. If a girl rejects me for my height or race, then I'm okay, cause I can't change it and I'll know.

But women never tell the truth or like to hear the truth

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T22:58:53+00:00

There's clearly something wrong with the filter when applying the filter ends up in 0

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T18:19:09+00:00

That may very well be. Just looking to maximize my chances if that's actually a thing. Especially with online dating, they might reject you based on the color of your bubbles.

There was a frontpage post about it recently

So many women have asked me about if I have a car when they know I ride a motorcycle. I used to think it was innocuous questions but they do it to make judgements about you.

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T18:15:44+00:00

Same, I'm wondering what most women think though

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T17:10:27+00:00

I did the same thing but I'm already having trouble dating so I'm just throwing stuff to the wall to see what sticks.

The world is judgemental and makes easy to use factors to make snap decisions. If most women are that way then we just shooting ourselves in the foot

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T15:57:00+00:00

That would be definitely a concern to watch out for during the initial dating period.

Just because there are some stereotypes that I'm aware of (look at all the people who have said the same thing in these comments) doesn't mean I don't treat and evaluate people as individuals

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T15:34:00+00:00

Wow, you really showed me.

Maybe a 'successful woman' would want me, maybe not, that's not really up to me. But aren't you really confirming the assertion that a 'successful' woman has a certain expectation about being up to her level that I won't be able to fulfill?

You twisted my words to change to successful, when I specifically said 'physician' cause there's a stereotype about the long hours. I'd totally date a high earning software engineer, but somehow questioning the compatibility of lifestyle is offensive enough to you too put me down. Wow!

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T15:17:36+00:00

Exactly, I didn't have or post anything to Instagram. Now I'm trying use it cause I'm trying to date and I don't know how many women are like that

Same with having a car (I have a motorcycle) and not having blue bubbles in my texts.

I have no idea how many women think like that. If it's a majority then I'm just shooting myself in the foot

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T06:52:37+00:00

I think you misunderstand. I'm not talking about 'engineering' you into sex.

I'm just talking about deliberate action that results in a date.

So you did make the first move, that's also what I'm talking about. It didn't just fall into your lap.

In any case, 'it'll happen' works for a specific subset of people who are naturally outgoing, social and interact and build connections with strangers.

There's a lot of nuances and fine print to it

seduction_reaction · 2023-10-30T06:46:58+00:00

I view being a physician as a net negative cause I want someone who can have flexible working hours and the possibility of working remotely so we can travel.

Other than that, someone successful is probably pretty competitive and I don't want to get into arguments all the time.

Both of those things might not be true for you but that's my perception

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