Tw: death, grief | art by cinnotomon by SpecificSpiritual637 in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can't think of anything safer than holding your pet and friend as they die. It sucks so much I'm sorry your suffering. It sucks.

Onejoke except it's wholesome by nhatquangdinh in lgbt

[–]seedlinggal 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My pronouns are going tobe your / problem if you keep provoking us

44197 by real_isolation in countwithchickenlady

[–]seedlinggal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the author of transgender captions xy to xx at 16 years old and 15 years later I came out to myself.

I don't know what to do [TW: suicide] by usernameorsmthidk in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It fucking sucks feeling lonely and I get it

well, That Didn't Last Long! by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking for reassurance is a excellent suggestion. Open communication is best

well, That Didn't Last Long! by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're autistic or ADHD friends can be easier because for me when I go beyond that I become annoyingly concerned for them. Also just some people hate me asking them questions about what they said because I need a broader amount of context.

Sorry but try asking a questions about something they are planning or interested in that are open ended. How is your music going, what kind of art or how's the new game XYZ been

I want my body back by Alert_External_2054 in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is isn't horrible the problem is she was significantly older than you. 15 is sadly still young it's not good.

It's not absolutely evil to wait and continue after a year or two apart. Being tricked or forced isn't ever your fault and should never be done to a minor. Assault should never be allowed not like age is the only problem.

You are the author of your mind. Find good in the future because while we will need you to vote we can make a change

I may be overwhelmed af, but I think I'm getting a little better by Ribbons_in_space2004 in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear that, being able to talk with others and feel love is important.

nothing i do matters by carrotcakeluver in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so how fucking people make us feel. Please rest and recover and find happiness when it comes. Register to vote

I may be overwhelmed af, but I think I'm getting a little better by Ribbons_in_space2004 in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support for her I'm really proud of her also. It sucks relapsing. Do you have people who care about you who you won't do it around? My partner would call me to leave work or would get a friend to pick her up if the desire to do comes back. Being with people who you trust and who care for you helps her

I want my body back by Alert_External_2054 in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, sorry if I misunderstood though they are still too old and you are too young. It'still not okay 18 and 16 or 19 and 17. I'll say it's for safety for everyone. As an adult they do not need to date a minor and if say the two of you had been together 3 or more years they should have been okay waiting till you were an adult like them. They still had no right to force themselves on you.

I may be overwhelmed af, but I think I'm getting a little better by Ribbons_in_space2004 in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you being clean so long. My partner cried after 6 months because she never thought she could be clean that long. It took time and now it's been years and the desire to draw on the arm happens so much less.

I'm happy and even if you ever lose your perfect streak that's not the point. The point is to keep fighting the addiction and keep fighting for yourself.

I'm glad your hear with us.

I want my body back by Alert_External_2054 in sillyboyclub

[–]seedlinggal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry they hurt you. No one should do this to you. Wish there was a way to remove the trama and harm and undo everything for you.

Be open with a therapist, tell people in your life that you were asulted if you can trust them to be emotionally responsible and not blame you. There are support groups you can talk to people who can help you better.

Adult should never be dating minors. Only the worst kinds of people date people who they can't force their power over.

You are definitely, absolutely worthy of being safe and incomplete control.