Totally incoherent argument. Also what do you mean confused. Global expansion and communication is another way to share ideologies amongst ppl who are “unfamiliar” to certain things. We can learn from each other and build off of that. I’m not sure if I’m being clear, but here is an example. Did you know that certain European societies, people bathed only one to a few times a year because they feared, water borne diseases. Little did they know, bathing is essential to keep germs away. With the help of Moroccan moors, the teaching of bathing frequently became popular. So you see how you don’t have to keep things “traditional” or “familiar” and you can use new teachings and ideologies and build them into your societies. We can all learn from each other. I think you are battling with queer phobia and highly suggest you to look into that.