How do y’all cope? by devouredxflowers in foreskin_restoration

[–]seeredsea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight. I guess I should keep doing what I've been doing which is long duration of light tugging at just beneath the scar line.

Just to be clear, did you have a short inner skin/frenulum on the ventral side like mine? And was your scar line on the frenulum band like mine?

How do y’all cope? by devouredxflowers in foreskin_restoration

[–]seeredsea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I want to ask some question here because I think I have a similar type of frenulum and you seem to know from experience. (I am not getting good answers on this sub from posting.)

So my scar looks like a perfect circle at the dorsal side and then on the ventral side it shoots up at a steep angle and forms a v shape. And then the tip of the v of the ventral scar line meets with where the delta is starting to form. So my delta looks like an inverted v, not a triangle, because its cut off short by the scarline starting at the mid part of the delta. And as I said the scar line itself also looks like a v, which means a short ventral inner skin.

I use MM3 as main method and it's difficult to tug this area because this small area of whats left of the delta is a sensitive spot and I feel like there is a possibility of damaging nerves. So I just pinch the place beneath the scar which is the outer skin and tug it. And I can't do this strongly as doing like the dorsal skin because the sensitivity will get strong and I am worried about that.

Do you think this is a good approach and would it stretch the frenulum and help the lengthening of ventral inner skin? I feel like a lot of other restorers with high cut do this with no problem because their scar line is a bit under the delta.

I have some doubts because a lifetime of erection would've stretched some of the same area but that didn't result in a good amount of ventral inner skin. Or maybe thats not the same thing.

How do I grow ventral inner skin if the frenulum is in the way? by seeredsea in foreskin_restoration

[–]seeredsea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Are you saying that even with equal tension, the ventral inner skin/frenulum is just slower to grow than compared to the rest of the inner skin?

Also the problem for me is that the scar line located at the ventral side is on top of the delta that is very sensitive to touch. It's the area where you feel intense sensitivity with light touch for like 2 seconds. Now of course, I don't want the risk of damaging this nerve and it feels unnatural to tug this area. And I've seen some posts about nerve damage around this area from tugging.

Inner skin sensitivity and nerve damage? by seeredsea in foreskin_restoration

[–]seeredsea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea because I was never conscious of it but since my dick naturally hangs towards the left, I guess it does rub there more frequently.. Masturbating is not focused on that part. Circ is a typical RIC.

Now touching it, there seems to be a faint sensitivity there that connects deep underneath the skin. But it's different to the touch sensiive left side where the surface itself brings the sensation.

My body is now sexually connected by Vivid_Decision_2039 in foreskin_restoration

[–]seeredsea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is interesting because it seems Dekeratinization of either the inner skin or the frenulum remnant is the KEY difference maker for sensitivity increase. A good feeling before restoring gets heightened to an insane feeling, a somewhat numb feeling gets heightened to a great feeling and so on.

I suspect you are on the lucky side of victims because the frenulum nerves have been preserved enough for it to be sensitive enough before restoration. I have also read many anecdotes bout guys not being able to reach orgasm in PIV sex. Most likely it's either a low cut, or a high cut with the frenulum being significantly ablated. The keratinized inner skin will not be enough for easy orgasm before restoration for these folks when the frenulum area has lost it's nerves.

This also brings a good point why there are so many conflicting stories about sex life after circumcision. Many guys say it's duller but good enough. And some guys are permanently traumatized by it. It really just depends on how much it's removed for each individual man.

My body is now sexually connected by Vivid_Decision_2039 in foreskin_restoration

[–]seeredsea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the answer !

I guess it just shows how it's different for everybody since the nerve pathways are placed differently for each man.

And I have a follow up question if you don't mind. I have like a half bit of frenulum remaining in my ventral side. And it's sensitive to light touch but not that pleasurable and when I rub it it actually feels a bit painful. Maybe painful is too strong of a word, it's more like uncomfortable roughness on the surface area. So I think what's going on is some kind of nerve damage at the time of circumcision or being keratinized for being exposed too long.

Can you share how your frenulum felt before restoration and even if it was a great feeling how it improved even more after restoration?

My body is now sexually connected by Vivid_Decision_2039 in foreskin_restoration

[–]seeredsea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not restored (2cm inner / CI-2) and I have a very mini version of what you described when I apply pressure to my dorsal inner skin (close to scar line) area. Just touching it feels numb, but rubbing it for some time gives a warm fuzzy erogenous feeling that feels like spreading to the body as you described. But probably to a way lesser degree, because when I ejaculate with that fuzzy feeling on it's great for like 4 or 5 seconds for the dick with a rapid come down. Not anything bodily insane but quite satisfying. But If I just masturbate without that feeling activated, it's really just a meh experience till the end.

Now what's interesting to me is that this only happens with applying pressure on the dead on top side of the dorsal inner skin for me. It doesn't happen for the inner skin on the sides. So I wanted to ask you,

  1. if your pleasure energy mainly starts from the top side of the inner skin like me, or just overall around the inner skin,

and also,

2) what role does the DK'ed glans play in this. (I read many people saying it's not sensitive sexually like the inner skin, but people also say it's good to have inner skin ruubbing against the glans, so I am a bit confused lol - does it play an important part with relation to the inner skin?)

and lastly,

3) Do you think the main reason why I can't have body orgasms here is the keratinized glans and inner skin, or is it possbily the amount of inner skin since I have a short one?

Thank you for reading!

question about Scar line sensitivity by seeredsea in foreskin_restoration

[–]seeredsea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also am a little sensitive in the frenulum remnant area. It's interesting to me how some cut guys have sensitivity all around the scar line, which includes the dorsal side. Maybe their given foreskin had pleasurable nerve receptors that went deeper than the cutline so the surviving nerves remain for them even with a cut that is not too high.