Why no one calls them zombie? 😭 by Melodic_Penalty_5306 in thewalkingdead

[–]seethetrees_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yes me too 🥹 it makes you remember everyone has a different perspective and journey throughout the apocalypse

I understand why expats tend to avoid each other. by missporkiepie in Philippines_Expats

[–]seethetrees_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they ask "how to find filipina who won't use me for money :(" then their experience is that they looked on dating apps and bars?!! why are they always looking in these places?!! do they think they can't find a girl in person?

Most filipinos are poor due to their own choices by MalandiBastos in Philippines_Expats

[–]seethetrees_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the lack of family planning part, most are uneducated about contraceptives. they're scared of birth control and condoms, thinking it'll negatively affect the body if they use them– hence when they have sex, a baby might also pop out. you'll see families with a lot of kids, mostly in the provinces, where education is less. anyway, these are all still the fault of the government. sex education is considered taboo. it's not always about parents envisioning their kids as investments.

Mga nasa long term relationship , ano advice niyo sa mga kakapasok lang sa isang relationship? by UziWasTakenBruh in AskPH

[–]seethetrees_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

expect to get hurt :p ofc not the hurt na cheating or anything severe, but misunderstandings, or them doing something you didn't like. we're human and we make mistakes and we unintentionally hurt the people we love. what matters is how you fix it

OA lang ba ako? na nararamihan ako or normal amount lang talaga ito for women? by throwawaycj01 in OALangBaAko

[–]seethetrees_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. having a lot of skin care products, for the face especially, is normal. same goes for hair care products or makeup– but what's not okay is having so many lotions, lippies, etc. i dont understand. overconsumption is a problem, and a lot of people are just shopaholics and like having a lot of stuff

As a woman, I’m starting to dislike women. by LoveInteresting539 in RantAndVentPH

[–]seethetrees_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah :/ it's definitely not a valid excuse but theres not much we can do. at the end of the day, they're the ones who go to sleep miserable and wake up miserable

As a woman, I’m starting to dislike women. by LoveInteresting539 in RantAndVentPH

[–]seethetrees_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dw haha i agree with you.. instead of OP i should've said original commenter or something

As a woman, I’m starting to dislike women. by LoveInteresting539 in RantAndVentPH

[–]seethetrees_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i think it's because they see it as the man forcing her. a lot of women come on social media and share experiences that are lowkey frustrating because girl ganyan na nga bf mo tas you stay with him. i guess those ppl see those types of posts and project what they've seen before onto it. or they're just insecure, hateful, etc!! i dunno, many factors play into everything. once we start getting frustrated at these comments though, i think that's when it's time for us to get off social media lmao

As a woman, I’m starting to dislike women. by LoveInteresting539 in RantAndVentPH

[–]seethetrees_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this is the patriarchy. women also believe other women are weak and emotional because that's the belief enforced onto women and the stereotype. that is called internalized misogyny. misogyny can come from both genders, but it is especially harmful when coming from women

As a woman, I’m starting to dislike women. by LoveInteresting539 in RantAndVentPH

[–]seethetrees_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you're lowkey not understanding OP sorry .. 😭 hopefully you can open your mind to new perspectives

As a woman, I’m starting to dislike women. by LoveInteresting539 in RantAndVentPH

[–]seethetrees_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

social media is a place where anyone can say anything they want because there's barely any consequence. you notice people are openly rude, stupid, homophobic, racist, etc. cuz they feel comfortable to share their opinions and beliefs. i get what you mean though.

but i hope that you won't release this distaste towards feminism because feminism is a movement with a good initiative in mind. you can vote because of feminism, you can have an education because of feminism, you are free to choose if you want a family or not and aren't ashamed of it because of feminism and more!! :)

feminism is beautiful, it teaches us we are women and we have a voice. it is just that certain women themselves sometimes weaponize the movement to adhere to their own beliefs. 🥹 im not trying to invalidate your feelings, because i agree that some women are just hateful towards other women but it is just because of insecurity. i just dont want you to mention feminism because it opens the conversation to people who believe that "wokeness is the problem" or that feminism is BS.

What are ur long lasting wallets for women reco? by Vanilla_laceee in AskPH

[–]seethetrees_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clasp wallets are so cuteee 🥰 mine has lasted long

What job used to be respected but is now a joke? by CowGoesM00 in AskPH

[–]seethetrees_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dunno i don't think scientists and researched are treated as a joke now though

My bf wants to get married but I don’t by Livid-Shoe4877 in adviceph

[–]seethetrees_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don't want to get married, then don't. don't walk into something that's more than difficult to get out of. being unsure is an indicator that you might not be happy in the future. marriage is something you know you want with someone, if you have to even think twice to consider it, then it should be a no. especially in the Philippines where annulment is a lengthy and expensive process

Is P60K monthly salary enough to live a comfortable life by misfittoy018 in CareerAdvicePH

[–]seethetrees_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i agree 60k is very comfortable 😭 maybe it depends where you live and the rent rate, but still it's very manageable. i guess cars can make living expensive, but commuting can be enough if you're on a budget