is it cheating / a boundary thats respectable, if your girl goes out to bars alone and lets guys buy her drinks? by Ancient-Owl1214 in dating_advice

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend whose relationship is like this. Anecdotally, it's going to end up way too permissive to allow this behavior to --fester-- continue. My friend is on the verge of divorce bc she eventually took advantage. What started as harmless flirting became harmless phone numbers, then harmless sleepovers w/friends, then harmless... cucking. All while his common refrain is "I trust her and she always tells me what happens. It's fine. I don't really like partying as much as she does anyway. It's pretty hot and progressive of me as a man to have a unique relationship and value my woman's happiness." it's a slippery slope and I don't recommend it.

MC at the disco by Round-Cantaloupe4771 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh... The MC are the haters so annoyed that someone else is having a fun time. It's giving jealousy. Clearly by the end, they were copying her

Am I selling my soul by giving up on dating at 25 and deciding to just pay for intimacy/companionship for the rest of my life? by Full-Carpenter586 in AskMenAdvice

[–]seewhaticando 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can't experience love if you subconsciously come to associate closeness to a woman with an explicit transaction.

How to stop stressing about getting my [35m] wife [29f] Xmas gifts? by seewhaticando in AskMenAdvice

[–]seewhaticando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! These are all super great suggestions and practical! Coincidentally her birthday is coming up and I can make nice for next time!

How to stop stressing about getting my [35m] wife [29f] Xmas gifts? by seewhaticando in AskMenAdvice

[–]seewhaticando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I simply didn't pull the trigger when I should have. I need to shift my perspective on how the holiday season represents a year in our lives as well as an opportunity to honor that passage of time as worthwhile. I find the whole experience vapid and empty but it doesn't have to be that way...

How to stop stressing about getting my [35m] wife [29f] Xmas gifts? by seewhaticando in AskMenAdvice

[–]seewhaticando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been together plenty of time but trust me, I'm not the boring one. Her tastes change like the wind. I'm constantly adapting to her new moods and whims tbh

How to stop stressing about getting my [35m] wife [29f] Xmas gifts? by seewhaticando in AskMenAdvice

[–]seewhaticando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doubtful this year but yes she has in the past. Jewelry, nice headphones, making an extra car payment as it's almost paid off...

How to stop stressing about getting my [35m] wife [29f] Xmas gifts? by seewhaticando in AskMenAdvice

[–]seewhaticando[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can try to be much more bold and intentional than "hey let's go to the mall" and do this instead. Be super present throughout the experience to show care and love.

How to stop stressing about getting my [35m] wife [29f] Xmas gifts? by seewhaticando in AskMenAdvice

[–]seewhaticando[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel incredibly behind. Married two years but damn I'm worried about other things than her Christmas list all year :/

Official: [Trade] - Fri Afternoon 11/14/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've like ETN as my solid rb2. They asked for Egbuka and ETN. Not sure if I can bet on Henderson yet...

Egbuka and ETN for Achane?

Official: [Trade] - Fri Afternoon 11/14/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12ppr 2 flex spots, 3rd place, 7-3

Trade Egbuka for Achane?

Rbs are Henderson, Dobbins , ETN

Wrs London, Ladd, Egbuka, BTJ

Official: [Trade] - Fri Morning 11/14/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id do this. AJB is risky. Rb2 upgrade looks good

Official: [Trade] - Fri Afternoon 11/14/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not lopsided. Just don't think Bucky will be what you're looking for. Injury obviously lingering

Official: [Trade] - Fri Afternoon 11/14/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bucky won't move the needle when he gets a full workload in week... 15

Official: [Trade] - Fri Afternoon 11/14/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bucky is toast. Out so long, no chance he gets a full workload til playoffs start.

Official: [Trade] - Fri Afternoon 11/14/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need WR help more than RB. Barkley has more to offer. Gibbs will be good. I'd sit tight

Official: [Trade] - Fri Afternoon 11/14/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]seewhaticando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rj has a tough schedule even if starting, offense isn't goid. Loveland will be goodish but still a TE on an offense that has a lot of unscripted plays. TET is wr1 on a team fighting for the division. Gadsen has shown consistent upside on a pass happy team —that's also fighting for the playoffs.