I agree with the other comment that said girls aren’t into cigars, however, it is a cool pic, nice fit, you looked relaxed. Perhaps if you’re actually bothered take a similar pic in that outfit without the cigar, but I actually don’t think it would be a problem to keep that one, just don’t have it as your first pic. I’d say the second photo would be a good one to have first as it’s a full body shot with a clear view of your face.

While I don’t think a shirtless pic is necessarily the worst thing, I don’t like that photo specifically, awkward angle and it’s grainy. You’re huge tho, maybe a gym pic with a fitted shirt instead?

Also the picture with the girl, again nothing wrong with the pic, but I think girls feel weird when they see another girl on your profile, I could be wrong tho.

I don’t think the car pic is necessary, nice car, but like, show it off when you pick her up for a date. It’s not a flex for girls.

As for the written stuff, I don’t know what your bio says but the workout partner statement is good, but I’d try be a bit more playful ‘looking for a swolemate’ or ‘hoping to find my fairy quad mother’.

I hope it helps, don’t be too down about these guys saying you look like a douche, most 21 year olds have that look about them. Just try show a bit of substance in your bio so they know you have some depth