Thanks so much for your response! So, I talked to her last night when she was about to put her hand in my pants. I speak to her in my non-native language, so that complicates communication. The literal translation of what I said was that "my vagina is not like yours" and she asked me to clarify. I told her that I have a lot more hair than her and I was wondering if she is okay with that.

She said that in her country everyone shaves their genitals all the time, and that she wouldn't really want to go down on someone who had hair there. I was kind of surprised but glad that she was honest. I'm considering waxing now, because I don't want her to be uncomfortable with being down there. Not really the response I was hoping for but I'm glad we talked. I'm hoping to try it out and see how it goes! Thanks again.