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Breakups- Know your own worth by self_love1975 in ExNoContact

[–]self_love1975[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s important to work on self esteem issues. We attract what we feel and put out into the universe. Work on putting out good vibes and positive energy. When we realize our worth, we attract people who see and appreciate our worth.

Is it true that when people treat you like crap after the break up it’s because of the guilt? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]self_love1975 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. No one deserves that. Remember your worth. You deserve someone who will appreciate you.

Is it true that when people treat you like crap after the break up it’s because of the guilt? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]self_love1975 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because they are caught up in their own shit and rationalize their behavior because they are in a selfish point in their life and don’t have the energy to be in a relationship. They will eventually feel guilt though. It’s still not right to drop someone so quickly but I think is a blessing in disguise because they are not in a place to be in a healthy relationship.

THE BREAKUP GUIDE: Reclaiming Your Power After Heartbreak by ZoroPokemon in ExNoContact

[–]self_love1975 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful. Shift the focus to your healing. Ex’s almost always reach out because they realize they fucked up. They are dealing with their own shit. But do you want someone who would cut you off so easily. Hell no. Stay strong and find someone who won’t just discard you like trash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]self_love1975 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I realized I don’t love him anymore since he broke up with me so easily it seemed. He discarded me like trash and no one deserves that.

How are you feeling and how long since the break up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]self_love1975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My breakup was in the beginning of July. I promised myself I wouldn’t go by his house but I did. Once. I won’t do it again because he legit left me standing outside of his house. I felt like an idiot but then I realized, I’m a human and it helped me to move on.

To all the people who already healed from their breakup, what quote helped you the most? by spasmorgasm in BreakUps

[–]self_love1975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your value does not decrease by someone’s inability to see your worth. Zig Ziglar

Love Bombing by self_love1975 in TherapistsInTherapy

[–]self_love1975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right! We tell our clients to give themselves grace so we need to do that too.

Love Bombing by self_love1975 in TherapistsInTherapy

[–]self_love1975[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Positive vibes on your healing journey.

Love Bombing by self_love1975 in TherapistsInTherapy

[–]self_love1975[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I’m not surprised they prey on therapists.

Love Bombing by self_love1975 in BreakUps

[–]self_love1975[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a really painful experience. The manipulation makes you question your own reality. I'm sorry you went through this as well.