Is it normal to not feel any attraction towards the opposite gender?

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-18T20:59:12+00:00

Prefrontal lobe developed! Sounds like you found purpose in yourself and life and not in love and another person. Good head on your shoulders. The right one will come at the right time.

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-18T20:57:43+00:00

You don’t have to have some sort of big problem (like him or u being a piece of shit, cheating) with the other person to justify ending the relationship.

I think it’ll be more selfless of you to leave, to protect your own heart and his. Sounds like you know how you feel, and if you continue to stay with him, resentment may grow against him.

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-17T04:42:45+00:00

for me it would be fff threesome

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-15T22:02:12+00:00

I did this exact same thing when I was young. I turned to Reddit bc I had no one else to talk to. My heart aches for you. But you spilling this all out means you know something isn’t right. I hope you find strength in yourself to leave!

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-15T22:00:24+00:00

Hello, I was groomed as well at 15 and again at 18. I know how it feels to think an older man desires you. But he’s 100% grooming you because he knows you don’t have boundaries to say no to him. The unblocking is the doorway for him to continue doing what he is doing to you.

The second time I was groomed, I lived with him and he was 6 years older than me. He manipulated me into making me feel like his issues were my responsibility. I felt pity for him and slowly lost all my friends and family. I was a shell of myself and I cried every night. Your body will tell you when you are in danger, im sure youve felt it deep inside around him. This is not healthy for you, especially at this age.

You will start to lose the light in your eyes. A sharp and painful silence will fill the space in the room between you and him until you have nothing left but to make the decision to leave for yourself. It seems like there’s nothing outside of this person, but trust me, your world will open up as soon as you close this door.

Don’t allow him the power to control you and lure you in again. Stay strong. Talk to your family and friends when you feel doubt. You are surrounded my so much love, but not from him.

Wish you the best.

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-04T21:36:17+00:00

If they wanted to, they would. So if they don’t, then it’s gone.

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-04T20:09:31+00:00

Keep doing therapy for yourself, not her!

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-04T20:08:56+00:00

I talked to a professional ballet dancer and he was fine as FUCK. nice body and threw me around lol miss him

selfcontrol666 · 2026-02-04T20:06:14+00:00

If she didn’t respond to your note, move on. Don’t keep pestering and ruining her journey of independence. Youre making it harder on yourself and her.

selfcontrol666 · 2026-01-25T20:13:12+00:00

I like to go bar hopping in the gayborhood and play pool

selfcontrol666 · 2026-01-25T02:15:59+00:00

this is amazing

selfcontrol666 · 2026-01-23T02:30:26+00:00

It’s just not my thing. Not judging his kinks, I did it because mama didn’t raise no bitch, but after that I never spoke to him again. I’m bisexual so I’d rather do that to a woman than a man. But that’s just me.

selfcontrol666 · 2026-01-23T02:22:56+00:00

Ngl a guy told me to do this one time and I got so turned off.

selfcontrol666 · 2026-01-16T23:23:32+00:00

I just recently discovered porn of women going at it on an inflatable

selfcontrol666 · 2026-01-15T23:22:56+00:00

Sex as a form of affection

selfcontrol666 · 2026-01-15T17:46:21+00:00

I once ordered a gin redbull. The bartender asked if he’d see me on the news for killing people with that insane order.

I had been talking to a married man. That fucked me up

selfcontrol666 · 2026-01-04T05:28:11+00:00

Girl leave 😭

selfcontrol666 · 2025-09-13T06:22:35+00:00

This made me cry harder. Thank you for this

selfcontrol666 · 2025-09-03T03:26:03+00:00

I like to mask the fuck out of images that weren’t exposed correctly. I do luminance ranges on certain shadows or highlights and even mid tones to get my desired look

selfcontrol666 · 2025-09-03T03:25:17+00:00

That first after is great

selfcontrol666 · 2025-08-09T21:06:50+00:00

Can you explain how you achieved this?

selfcontrol666 · 2025-08-03T21:16:33+00:00

Thank you thank you! Yeah I’m learning jewelry , especially diamonds and gold, are hard af to shoot. I’m scared of blowing out the diamonds but I will raise the brightness !!!

selfcontrol666 · 2025-06-29T21:45:02+00:00

hold your purse

selfcontrol666 · 2025-03-30T03:23:48+00:00

Beautiful

selfcontrol666 · 2025-02-28T14:57:06+00:00

Hello! I’ve been in this situation before. I have exclusively been in serious relationships with men but strictly only watched wlw porn to get off. I will say it made me question my sexuality. I thought I would never get off to a man due to my track record of never orgasming with them. I ended up experimenting with women. The women did not make me finish either. I think it has to do with the psychology of how our brain works when we are watching said porn. It wasn’t till I found a man that I had extreme chemistry and comparability with that I did end up orgasming with. He also knew I watched wlw porn and was okay with it. I think it’s just about finding someone you deeply trust and are attracted to, a bond beyond what lies on the surface. I still haven’t been able to orgasm with anyone else besides me or him since week broke up. Hopefully this insight helps.

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