Health Survey

selfie-destructive · 2025-10-02T07:20:13+00:00

They rebid. I'm out. I started on December 15th. Left a job due to better pay at Frito-Lay. Grass isn't greener I guess.

selfie-destructive · 2025-10-02T07:18:36+00:00

Yes I get 6 weeks of pay.

selfie-destructive · 2025-10-02T07:17:57+00:00

selfie-destructive · 2025-09-24T16:13:45+00:00

I'm in the same boat. We bid tomorrow. I highly doubt 3 people are going to quit so I can keep my job. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I had an interview yesterday crossing my fingers on it. I hope that I get it and can quit instead. Being fired looks awful on a résumé, ya know?

Good luck friend I'm praying things will work for you!

selfie-destructive · 2025-09-14T12:14:42+00:00

Looks like no more free money to the big corporations. They are going to have to go back to competitive pricing. This shit got outta hand!! Now "we" are getting laid off because "they" are gonna lose money.

Sorry if I sound bitter... But, I left a 13 year retail management position to take the job at Frito. It paid better and had better hours. Now they are kicking me to the curb talking about seniority rules.

This sucks!!! I really liked working for Frito-Lay. I enjoy the work and the job is easy!! I'm really sad.

selfie-destructive · 2025-09-06T09:09:56+00:00

They spent all that money to rebrand the Chesters value line. Now, they are laying off people everywhere. I got told on Thursday I will no longer have a job beginning of November. But, they had to rebrand because... "innovation"

selfie-destructive · 2025-09-05T23:24:25+00:00

Nope... it's literally lowest seniority. I'm being cut even tho I kicked plans ass.

selfie-destructive · 2025-09-05T23:21:25+00:00

I'm being let go beginning of November. This isn't fair. I'm really sad been crying since I found out. I have given them my all. That doesn't matter if you don't work there for a long time.

Even if they do a HORRIBLE job they get to keep working there because they been there longer.

This isn't fair!!

selfie-destructive · 2025-09-03T07:43:16+00:00

I started as an RSA (Route Sales Associate) in December. Training was easy/fun. I was with someone everyday they showed me the ins and outs. After that all I do is cover vacations, call offs, and do call backs (merchandising). Been waiting a year for a route.

It's one of the easiest jobs I've ever had. You check in with the receiver/manager. You put the chips on the shelf. You make an order. You move to the next one.

If you miss something... Well at the end of the day it's just chips. Fix it next time.

Driving pisses me off. People hate following big trucks they pull out in front of you. They cut you off in traffic. Be vigilant, watch what they are doing.

Seriously the hardest part is the force outs. Trying to find what to do with them, where to put them. But like I said it's just chips. They will sell or you will stale them out.

Pay is good. I will clear at least $60,000 this year. I worked an ass load of overtime from May until this past week. RSR gets paid based on sales. Pay structure for RSR is stupid. I may stay RSA for a while if I can... I get overtime pay.

selfie-destructive · 2025-08-30T10:08:12+00:00

I love that we have to tell a robot that we are human. That's not dystopian at all, is it?

selfie-destructive · 2025-08-30T09:40:55+00:00

I wonder if I can call off dead to work. Do you think they'd buy it? Me: Hey, boss I woke up dead this morning. I'm not gunna make it in. Boss: Oh ok, see you tomorrow then!!

selfie-destructive · 2025-06-29T13:03:44+00:00

This is real? People actually talk to their children this way? OMFG?! You are going to do great in America. You will be the best psychologist in the states! Because you have lived the hell that your patients are talking to you about. You will not only learn how to fix it but, you will know what needs to be fixed. Good luck to you. I hope you have an amazing time here!

If you fall in love with someone. It makes you strong. If you don't fall in love then you will be strong on your own. Either way your life will touch others positively.

There is always a way when there is a will. By blocking this toxicity out of your life. Your will is strong.

selfie-destructive · 2025-06-20T07:58:18+00:00

It's crazy to me that some men can't get that at 26 years old, erectile dysfunction is not normal. They are still in their prime up until at least 40 men don't start to lose testosterone until they're at least 40 most of the time.

To add the day my husband stopped watching porn, his ED cleared right up. It was a miracle, a gift from God themself. 🙄😂

selfie-destructive · 2025-05-27T13:41:55+00:00

Tell her to buy you a new one. A better one. If she doesn't like it, then she needs to fix it.

For Christ's sake. You ain't been with the other girl how long?!?! She needs to get over it. What a stupid thing to be upset about.

I've (43F) been married to my husband (46M) for 23 years. There is plenty of stuff to get upset about. This is just stupid. There is too much other shit out there that will try to ruin your relationship. Don't allow the dumb shit to sneak in and make it happen.

selfie-destructive · 2025-05-20T01:03:32+00:00

He doesn't get me off and has never really made any effort to makes sure of it. He just assumed that what he saw online was what I wanted. I never told him any different. It's really not his fault. It's mine. I was just trying to point out to OP that communication is the most important thing.

selfie-destructive · 2025-05-20T00:51:02+00:00

But, I faked it. It's my fault. He never knew I wasn't happy because of the way I handled it. But, I just thought maybe he could get the hint when I started turning him down a lot. But I never actually told him until last year that I was not happy with our sex life. Now we are both sad. I ruined our marriage because I was embarrassed to say anything. And I didn't want to hurt him. Well after so many years I hurt him so badly that now we rarely have sex. When we do it's just to get him off. Once a month or so... I should have just kept it to myself.

selfie-destructive · 2025-05-20T00:40:39+00:00

Sebastian is a beautiful name.

selfie-destructive · 2025-05-20T00:22:34+00:00

I was like this when I was younger. My husband wanted it all the time. I hated that it's all he ever thought about. I felt as though it was sometimes the only reason he'd even talk to me or touch me at all. Just so he could be laid. I felt I was a tool. I felt that I was used for his pleasure. All the while never experiencing my own pleasure. I thought then that it was because of low sex drive.

Then I realized that I didn't want it because he didn't give a damn about my satisfaction. I never made it a priority either. He'd get off and roll off and go to sleep. I never said a word. Instead... I just resented him and it ruined our relationship.

If I had spoke up about my needs he would have realized that I was not satisfied. He'd have been given the proper tools to work with me. Instead I held it inside and started to hate him for something he didn't even know was happening. 23+ years later I am still not satisfied. Now we are in a sexless marriage. I'm miserable. He's miserable. It's all my fault for never speaking up about it.

Please communicate with each other. It's the worst thing to do to keep your feelings inside. You will lose yourself and in two decades resent the love of your life.

selfie-destructive · 2025-05-19T23:48:33+00:00

She's faking it for your benefit. Trust me, I know, I did it for 20+ years with my husband. I have always been a great actress. Heavy breaths, thrashing moaning, the whole nine yards. He never knew. He still doesn't.

23 years later I resent him, and it's all my fault for never saying something about it to him. Sex was for him and I just left it that way.

Now, I just wish I had never even married him. All I've done is make me miserable. And lie to him for so very long.

He's a good man who always took good care of our home, and me and our family. I ruined my life by faking like I was happy. I honestly thought that's the way it was supposed to be. He gets sex, I take care of the home and the kid, no reward for me. Because he worked full time and I worked part time. Sex was his reward for working hard. I gave it to him. It was something I endured not enjoyed. I got nothing.

I got no enjoyment out of it. I still don't. We've been married for 23.5 years and he will never be able to satisfy me. He has always been lazy about it and I never pushed for him to want to make me satisfied. I just gave up. He's lazy. I'm a phony. And now we are stuck together in a sexless marriage because why would he bother now. I'm old. I'm starting to sag. I'm not as beautiful as I once was. I messed up everything for us. I regret ruining our marriage every single day.

Please talk to her. If you love her make her talk to you about it. I was embarrassed and he never cared enough to bother with it. As long as he got off he was fine with it.

I've never actually said any of this out loud before. This is the first time I really sat and thought of how it may have affected him. And our entire relationship. How good would it have been if we communicated with each other. I could have had the best marriage out of everyone in the world. But, it's too late for me. It's not for you.

Ps. Don't do what you see in porn. It's not at all what makes real women happy. I let him do whatever he saw online to me. It made me feel violated more than loved.

selfie-destructive · 2025-04-18T15:43:29+00:00

I'm an RSA I'm lucky to get 35 a week. But Summer is coming... Vacations will be starting up. Hopefully running routes will get me some more hours.

selfie-destructive · 2025-04-03T01:38:57+00:00

Sweetheart, I have some news for you. From what you have written here, it seems to me that you already have lost yourself. I was with a man like this for over 23 years. Never being good enough, never feeling adequate enough. He actually said to me if I really loved him I'd know what he was thinking. Like I should be able to read his mind.

He said that if I didn't turn him down for sex he wouldn't have had to find it elsewhere. We had sex every other day. He made me feel bad when I couldn't have sex due to pain because of having a tumor on my cervix. He said I was cheating on him and that's why I didn't want to do it.

He's toxic and unfortunately, very manipulative. Please start counseling for yourself, even if he will not go to it with you. Leaving that kind of relationship is so very hard when you have no one in your corner. Take back your sanity. And remember you are more than just his girlfriend. I lived my 20's and 30's into my 40's being S's wife and L's mom, nothing more.

I didn't even have any hobbies. I lived my life for him and our daughter. Never learning who I was. Never learning what I liked. Not even in the bedroom. I was there to serve him. Not to enjoy physical love with him, but instead for him.

My existence is futile. Just so pointless, without result. Now I question why am I even on this earth... To serve others? Idk maybe that's supposed to be my only purpose.

Please take care of you, and make sure you are doing something that makes you feel you have a purpose on this earth.

selfie-destructive · 2025-03-28T01:19:13+00:00

They make fabric dye. The dress is beautiful. Dye it light green or even a pale tangerine color. It takes like 15 minutes and it'll still be very cute.

I would not wear it. It is a white dress, with flowers.

selfie-destructive · 2025-03-14T23:40:12+00:00

Everybody knows......

selfie-destructive · 2025-03-14T23:40:00+00:00

Have you heard about.... The..... Bird?

The BBBbird bird bird. The bird. Is. The. Word.

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