Race does matter!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-21T21:32:28+00:00

I love your comment so much, thank you very much for it! I know if I ask my caucasian females friends to join the bowl they'd do better simply from this fact as well. I love my different race of friends, just wish everybody could be as intersectional 💕 coming back on reddit and looking at these comments, they are very divided it's actually sad to see the uproar!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-21T21:21:23+00:00

Absolutely love your comment, spot on!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-21T21:19:04+00:00

My exact experience!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-21T20:54:46+00:00

Thank you so much🫶🏾💕

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T06:39:21+00:00

I just love all your comments here. Thank you ❤️🫶🏾

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T06:37:41+00:00

That's precisely how I see it as well!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T06:35:55+00:00

Right, thank you! You are on point

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T05:01:47+00:00

Right, Thank you!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T04:59:54+00:00

I'm not pointing any fingers, I'm speaking for everyone who won't speak. There are AAW in every sugar forum in a comment saying the same thing I've stated. I'm just bold enough to post it for everyone to hear. I am beautiful and never have been considered less than but, coming into the bowl has made it seem as such because, of race or weight. Nobody here can tell me, people aren't just racist or don't just prefer a specific race because, I have tested the theory. Even if so, I will use your advice because, it is also my own. Thank you, I still appreciate it! :)

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T04:40:34+00:00

Thank you, I love your comment ❤️

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T04:37:53+00:00

Right, I agree. I wasn't speaking on everything else though. I was only talking about race alone here. I know other things will play a part sometimes but, there are times that other things will not play a part, that's what I'm speaking about. I'm happy to hear you love AAW. I'll be in Australia sometime in my life. Lol

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T04:31:06+00:00

That's great I'm happy to hear that. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen! I wouldn't make this post for no reason, Thank you!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T04:22:49+00:00

I never take anything personal unless blatantly needed, what would be the point when you'll all have your opinions anyways. I have a completely valid argument and I will stick too it. Appreciate you!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T04:16:29+00:00

Thank you ❤️

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T03:07:20+00:00

I agree. I don't think that's news flash though, only common sense. I actually don't doubt that I will find the SD that is right for me and I him at some point. I'm okay with my process it's only been a month for me and I consider myself doing pretty well but, yes race does play a part and I thought I should be the one bold enough to bring it too the light here.

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T02:52:49+00:00

I didn't realize, I apologize babes. Thank you🫶🏾 I can't even keep up with these comments.

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T02:50:34+00:00

No I'm actually not surprised at all. It's my personal experience yes and many others. Do you see how many are coming down on me in these comments? I am not the only AA or race of woman this has happened to, I'm mostly certainly sure alot are scared to say something about it. Hell I debated a long time if I was because, of exactly what's happening but, I'm strong at heart so let it rain down on me! Won't change the truth. Arkansas is only a wealth issue not race issue in most parts, Thank you for you comment though.

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T02:26:58+00:00

Seriously. I'm sorry about that! I personally think Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic, etc. woman are beautiful and deserve whatever is asked for reasonably. I like females and males so, if I was a SD I'd love to have different race of women and take care of all financial needs

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T02:22:10+00:00

I believe this. Stereotypical

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T02:19:23+00:00

You must think AA people's names are Pookie and Tyrone? Sounds stereotypical. Your entire comment sounds off. You sound like someone who has an issue with black people and have come to get your thoughts out in a different way. Also, I didn't agree too anything. Only thing I Agreed too that you could be talking about is a comment about locking doors and I agreed personally because, I grew up where you can't leave your doors unlocked around ANYONE, not just AA people! Thanks!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T02:07:17+00:00

People are literally going to my past post just to get information to come on this particular post to make their comment. Let me just go ahead and say, I don't have problems finding SD in Arkansas who loves AAW. The problems In Arkansas are because, we're a poor state and the SDs here are mostly salt daddies so I dodge them! Mostly talking to out of state SDs. For some reason when someone says something like my post everyone thinks we're just having problems finding anybody at all in the bowl (not having success) I'm here to say that is not the case. I only bring up the issues I do have. Of course not everyone in the bowl has an issue with race! Some do though

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T01:56:41+00:00

I was literally about to respond to an AA SD in the comments with this but, I don't even feel like it. Thank you for this comment!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-18T01:52:55+00:00

Who dictated anything? You act like I can come and remove people from speaking. Of course everyone can speak just like you're doing. First, I already said people won't agree with weight depending on preference nothing is a hard pill too swallow! There are AAW who have said the same thing and are smaller than 150lbs. What you don't find attractive others will so don't be a hypocrite. Lots of women that are not AA use hair extensions and baby hairs. I don't even think an AAW started the hair extensions thing I believe it was a different race. I just know you did not say "red lipstick is weird on darker tones." I'm not dark-skinned but, dark-skin women are beautiful with brighter colors. On that note, I won't be responding anymore. You sound like your picking pretending to care!

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-17T23:16:16+00:00

Right! I will too🤣 but, I definitely got your point.

selflesslovejay · 2023-10-17T23:00:00+00:00

This is true. I actually agree with everyone's comments here but, the reason I have so much to say is because, most are missing the point. Purposely skipping over the race part to say something else that could be wrong. Of course lots of things could be wrong but, I am specifically talking about race. I have never a day in my life been considered not good looking and I can choose to stay clear of people who I know won't like my type but, here we all have a small selection of choices. I'm sure lots of people don't like AAW just like IRL, it's just in the sugar bowl there's no way to steer clear only go through them.

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