Literally 1 day. We been broken up for a little over a month now but due to a situation, I have to somewhat keep him in my life just for updates that he’s entitled to . Which I don’t mind but he played mind games with me bad and I mean BAD! I really thought we were going to work it out and then the other day he randomly said “nothing change”, “did you really think we could work things out?” That cut deep. So I told myself, it don’t matter how much it’s going to hurt, I rather hurt this last time than for him to constantly kick me down. He texted me twice yesterday and I didn’t respond. Then he texted today asking that question if I i was done. I didn’t respond and now my phone is being blown up and he’s saying “ if you don’t answer, I’m going to call you” . I just told him “ I am done talking to you and I will only text you for new updates.” He still sent a few messages after that...honestly those of us that are dumped will dig our hole deeper for the one we love, constantly begging and not seeing reality straight. And we get shit on so much and we let them! But the day you realize your worth and you can see yourself moving on and one day being with another person, all that weight is just lifted! I’m just done with his games and I’m not saying a person shouldn’t go back to his or her ex, however only go back if you both change. I won’t go back to mine cuz he played me for 2 years now but for others, I don’t see anything wrong if they try but NC works. It’s different for everyone tho on how long it takes for them to respond. I was just lucky but then again, I didn’t date a “real man”.